FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by April 21st.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive between 4:30 and 4:45, so that the Event Manager and Executive Assistant can begin the ceremony on time.

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Is there a dress code?

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Short answer? Queer Formal.

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What the heck does Queer Semi-Formal mean?

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For those of you with American Traditional Gender leanings and who want some clear guidance, Emily Post says: menfolk wear a jacket and tie, a dark suit, etc.; women wear a cocktail dress or a dressy pantsuit. QUEER FORMAL means: This is going to be an inclusive wedding for a gender-diverse crowd, so feel free to interpret and reinterpret the above in a way that feels joyful and authentic to you. Also in the spirit of an inclusive wedding, please feel free to dress in formal styles drawing direct or indirect inspiration from traditions relevant to your own familial background.

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What's the weather going to be like?

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If you're asking this, you're probably not from the Northeast. It could be anywhere between 48° and sunny to 70° and raining to 90° and sweltering. We'll all find out together. Check the weather the week before.

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Can I bring a date?

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If you can bring a +1, we'll let you know either via text or invite.

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Are kids welcome?

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Only for blood family.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Plentiful*! There's still not infinite, so please carpool if you can.

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Do you have a registry?

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We've lived together for several years and have all the housewares we need - your presence at the wedding is absolutely gift enough! However, if you would like to give us a gift, we would love contributions to our honeymoon fund so we can go to Rome in 2027. You can Venmo a contribution to @Alexis-Krohn-2 . If you really want to get us a gift, we've put together a small list of things we'd like, but don't need. Thank you!

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I want to stuff my face with gluten. All day every day. Can I bring some?

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No - The entire wedding is going to be gluten-free, as one of the brides has celiac! Please leave your gluten at home, so we can guarantee a safe day for both brides.

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I didn't choose a meal preference on the RSVP - what's up with that?

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Dinner will be buffet-style, with omnivorous, vegetarian, and vegan options - all gluten-free.