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Attire

The Wedding Website of Vivian Drury and Alex Tantlinger
Our wedding is a black-tie affair, which means it’s the perfect excuse to bring out your most elegant looks. Think timeless, sophisticated and a touch glamorous. We’re so excited to see our favorite people looking their absolute best for this special night.

What to Wear

Tips and tricks for dressing to the nines!

For Men: Black tie means a tuxedo—black or midnight navy—paired with a white dress shirt, black bow tie and formal black shoes. A cummerbund or waistcoat is optional but classic. If you’d like to add a bit of personality, consider a velvet dinner jacket, subtle patterned bow tie or sleek cufflinks. Please see below for tuxedo rental resources. For Women: Opt for a floor-length gown or formal jumpsuit. And black tie doesn't mean solely black attire- color is welcome! Elegant fabrics like silk, satin, velvet, lace and chiffon are excellent choices. Feel free to incorporate fun details like sequins, ruffles or subtle prints.

What Not to Wear

To keep the formality consistent, please avoid:

-Short cocktail dresses or sundresses -Tuxedos without a bow tie that are not black or midnight navy -Dresses with high slits -Lightweight or casual fabrics (linen, cotton, jersey) -Daytime attire (jeans, khakis or casual shoes) If you’re unsure, err on the dressier side. As Oscar Wilde once said, "You can never be overdressed..."

Inspiration & Resources

Here are a few places to browse for inspiration:

Copy and paste this link for personalized recommendations, plus links to shop the looks: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1bCorSyHKJd45DmcSUNLS_WE9qr7jzOVayFoC5KTip60/edit?slide=id.p#slide=id.p For Him (Copy and paste links to view): -Men's Black Tie Attire Guide: https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-should-men-dress-for-a-black-tie-wedding -The Black Tux (Tuxes to Rent): https://theblacktux.com/ -Men’s Wearhouse (Tuxes to Rent): https://tuxedo.menswearhouse.com/ -SuitShop (Tuxes to Purchase): https://suitshop.com/ For Her (Copy and paste links to view): -Women's Black Tie Attire Guide: https://www.tiktok.com/@beingjulia/video/7510730423761128760 -Vogue Wedding Dress Code: https://www.vogue.com/article/black-tie-dress-code