FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by Saturday, February 28, 2026. This helps us finalize catering, seating, and other event details.
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Can I bring a guest?
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We can’t wait to celebrate with you! To ensure we are able to curate a wonderful and memorable experience for our guests, please only bring the people named or the plus one indicated on your invitation. Thank you for helping us make the day special for everyone!
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What time should I arrive to the Wedding ceremony?
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The ceremony will begin at 4:00 PM. We kindly ask guests to arrive by 3:30 PM to allow time for parking and seating.
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What time should I arrive to the Holud Shondha?
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Please plan to arrive at 4:00 PM. You’re welcome to stay and celebrate with us for as long as you like throughout the evening.
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What is a Holud Shondha?
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A Holud Shondha is a traditional Bengali pre-wedding celebration centered around joy, blessings, and togetherness. During the event, family and friends apply turmeric to the bride and groom as a symbol of good luck, purification, and happiness ahead of marriage. Holud means “turmeric,” and Shondha means “evening.” Historically, turmeric has been believed to promote health and bring a natural glow, making it an auspicious part of wedding rituals. For our celebration, expect plenty of delicious food, fun games, music, and lots of dancing!
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What is the dress code for the Wedding?
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For the wedding ceremony & reception, Bengali traditional attire (sari, lehenga, or salwar kameez for ladies; sherwani or panjabi for gentlemen) or Western formal attire (black-tie optional) is encouraged. We would love to see bright pastel colors and floral patterns, especially in dresses and traditional outfits. Gentlemen are welcome to incorporate pastels or florals through ties, pocket squares, shirts, or other accessories. If you’re interested in wearing traditional attire and would like guidance or assistance, please feel free to reach out to the bride or groom—we’re happy to help!
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What is the dress code for the Holud Shondha?
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For the Holud Shondha, guests are encouraged to wear Bengali traditional attire or Western semi-formal attire. This celebration traditionally features bright, bold colors. Our color theme will be yellow and blue. Festive, colorful accessories are welcome. If you’re interested in wearing traditional attire and would like guidance or assistance, please feel free to reach out to the bride or groom—we’re happy to help!
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How long is the wedding ceremony?
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The ceremony is brief (~20 minutes) and will be immediately followed by the reception.
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Will food and drinks be provided?
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Yes! Both events will have food and soft drinks served.
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Are gifts required?
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Your presence is the greatest gift! We won’t have a traditional registry. Guests may contribute to our Honeymoon Fund if they wish, but it is completely optional.
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Is parking available at the venues?
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On-site parking is available and free at both the Wedding venue and the Holud Shondha venue. Please plan to arrive early to allow time for parking.
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What should I know about travel and local conditions?
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Raleigh/Wendell weather in late May typically ranges from pleasant to warm. Ride-share options (Uber/Lyft) are widely available, and traffic is generally moderate to light on weekends.
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Where should out-of-town guests stay?
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Recommended hotels within easy driving distance to both venues: -Hampton Inn & Suites Raleigh/Crabtree Valley -DoubleTree Raleigh Crabtree Valley -Holiday Inn Express & Suites Raleigh SW NC State -Raleigh Marriott Crabtree Valley Drive times are ~25–40 minutes from these hotels and each venue.