FAQs

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When to RSVP by?

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Please send your RSVPs in by August 1st, 2026!

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What is the dress code?

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Formal Attire! Our wedding will be a formal, outdoor celebration. We kindly invite guests to dress in formal attire, with neutral tones encouraged to complement the aesthetic of the day. Please avoid wearing white or denim.

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids invited?

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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only, 21+ event. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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Is there parking at the venue?

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If you drive there is ample parking on-site at the venue. And if the drinks are flowing and you'd rather not drive home, the venue allows overnight parking. Just make sure to pick up your car by 11 am the next morning.

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How do I get to the venue?

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We recommend carpooling or making use of a service like UBER. We also recommend planning to be at the venue a little early.

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Is the ceremony & the reception at the same location?

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Yes! The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all take place at the Chateau De Lis.

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Will the Wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Weather permitting (and let's be honest, September in Oregon can be unpredictable), the ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors on the grounds of Chateau De Lis. The reception will be held in the arboretum which is equipped with air conditioning and heating.

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Where can I find a schedule for the weekend?

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For a detailed list of all the events, including locations, times and everything in between, head over to the home page. It's all laid out there!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! Come thirsty. We'll have an open bar flowing all night. Cheers to that!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that when the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographer to be able to capture the best pictures which we will share with you. Once the ceremony is over feel free to take as many photos as you'd like and don't forget to share them with us!