FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP by October 10th, 2025

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Is there a welcome party?

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Some guests will receive an invite to a welcome party the day before. The venue will be close by and transportation will be provided from Tarrytown House Estates. Please let us know if you have any questions.

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What should I wear?

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For the Wedding Day the dress code is Cocktail Attire: cocktail dresses, LBDs, dressy jumpsuits, and dark jackets and slacks. Please no jeans

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Can I bring a date?

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Your invitation will indicate if you received a plus one. We both have big families and lots of friends.

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Are kids welcome?

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We appreciate your family but kindly request that your children not attend the wedding. However, the hotel is on-site and we can recommend babysitters that you can use.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes! Please make sure to indicate any food allergies on your RSVP.

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Where can I leave my luggage/belongings since hotel check-in is at the same time as the ceremony?

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You will be able to check your belongings with the front desk. (We are also working with the Hotel to provide an earlier check in for guests arriving Saturday)

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Will the wedding ceremony be outside?

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We are currently planning to have the wedding ceremony outside. However, if there is inclement weather (e.g. below 60 degrees or raining) we will move inside. Please plan accordingly.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes there is plenty of parking available at venue as well at valet service for your convenience.

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How do I get from the train/hotel to the venue?

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Please see our travel page for all transportation questions.

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Is there an after party?

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Yes, there will be an afterparty on-site in a secret location. Please ask the wedding party for directions.

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Why do you need my size and what size am I supposed to give you?

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We are preparing a special surprise for everyone that requires your general clothing size. Please see the size chart here (copy and paste web address into your browser), (We suggest you enter one size up.) https://imgur.com/a/k1Bp7J9

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Is everything final?

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No we are still working to finalize our events and details. Please regularly check back closer to The Big Day for additional details and information.