Alexa and Cory have opted to not participate in some traditional wedding events such as the garter dance, garter toss, and clinking glasses to make them kiss. They have also added in a few things that are not traditional to make the day more fun. Please be respectful and do not make a fuss or try to force these things on them. Remember, it’s their day, not yours.
All invitations state “____ of ____ attending” with the second space filled in with a designated number. Please do not exceed this number of guests per each invitation. We would not be able to guarantee a seat or food for those people. These numbers do include any children in each family.
Children are absolutely welcome! We have already planned for children to have their own plate of food. We do understand it may be difficult to find a babysitter at times, especially if everyone you know has been invited also. However, please keep in mind that the venue is not child proofed and you are responsible for your child/children, not the bride, groom, owners/staff of the venue, or any vendors.
The events of the entire wedding day are listed on the schedule page. Please do not arrive too early for the ceremony. Following the ceremony are pictures and then the reception. If you do show up early there will be snacks available for guests to enjoy while waiting for dinner. You may also walk around the venue property while you wait.
Champagne will be provided for a toast, but we are not providing an open bar. You are more than welcome to bring your own alcohol but please remember this is not the time or placed to get wasted. Make sure you have a designated driver or a place to stay for the night. We want to make sure all of our guests get home safe and sound.
Please do NOT take pictures during the ceremony. We have hired a photographer to capture every moment of our ceremony, and also the important parts of the reception. The last thing we want is for all of our pictures to have a bunch of arms with cameras and phones in every picture our photographer tries to take. Enjoy the moment, it will be captured, we promise. Try and capture some candid pictures of the wedding party and guests! Candid pictures are Alexa’s favorite and often turn out better than staged pictures.
If you have lost your RSVP card that was included in the invitation, you can still RSVP right here on our website! Please do not try to RSVP through a phone call or text to me or someone in my family. We are all very busy and forgetful and you may not be written down as attending the wedding.