No! Why this is . . .our theme is gothic Regal Wedding. Although it may sound like a funeral to some this is the theme we went with and for photo sake I want everyone to match. The exceptions to this rule is: ( Ally/ Alec/ Karyn/ Ronnie/ Lucas) who are allowed to wear a accent color of red.
We will be asking for some input before the wedding on food but . . . the bride is experiencing parosmia (a smell and taste issue) so catering will most likely be sandwiches/ salads/ and or pasta. If you have a dietary restrictions or are allergic to something please get with the bride or groom so we can accommodate for you.
Yes! They hold classes for yoga and small work out sessions there through the week . . .but on the weekends it is rented out for events. Do not worry it is one small upscale building there will be no one else there except for us that night and possibly staff who work there.
I would! This event is on a Sunday and dosnt end till 12am it is a hour drive from our house so I'm sure it will be even further for others. So you can experience the whole night I highly suggest taking off Sunday and Monday and booking a hotel in the area. (We will post soon what hotel we will be at if anyone wants to be at the same place as us)
No sadly we do not have money to pay for everyones trip to us. -If we could we definitely would-. If you cannot make it due to this I completely understand. We will try to have a live video of our event going on or we will post a video of it after on social media for anyone who can't make it.
No gifts are not required! We have a registery on this site for a honeymoon fund if you would like to contribute to that though.
No! I have some friends who are uncomfortable around alcohol. (Do not bring alcohol to this event either as it would void our rental contract!) We will most likely have a sparkling grape juice toast instead!
No, the plus one is only for your spouses or significant others. We are not allowing children at the wedding. We apologize, but this is a adult oriented event.
No, the theme is gothic regal wedding. We are trying to not make sure it dosnt look like a kids birthday party and more refined/upscale looking wedding. Obviously with it being Halloween we will still try to do a spooky decor at our venue. But please leave your costumes at home for next Halloween.
You can before the wedding but . . .the bride and groom have mostly already decided the music selection.
The location is in a strip mall you may park anywhere in front of the building.
It is free seating but we will probally have 2 tables reserved for alecs family
That is correct you heard that right! The bride (ally) is only inviting her friends! Why you ask well honestly it's a long story but lets sum it up to she dosnt know her dad and her mom and that side of the family is toxic. To keep the day happy and special they are not invited. (For people who believe in traditional weddings well . . . . Its definitely not that, sorry) We only invited the people we know love and care about us and that's all that truely matters!