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We're so excited to celebrate our wedding day with you. Find all the details you need to know about our big day right here on our wedding website. See you at the wedding!
We're so excited to celebrate our wedding day with you. Find all the details you need to know about our big day right here on our wedding website. See you at the wedding!
September 13, 2025
Caledonia, New York

Elena & Alden

FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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We would love to see our guests dress up in cocktail attire for our special day. Ladies can wear midi or floor-length dresses and gentlemen can wear slacks and button-down shirts with a tie. Please no jeans or sneakers. We also request that guests avoid shades of white, ivory, and cream so that the bride stands out on this special day. Our wedding is in September, so the weather can vary! We advise bringing a shawl or light jacket for comfort in case of chillier temperatures as the night continues.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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A time for the ceremony will be given on your formal invite and we ask that you arrive and be in your seat NO LATER THAN 15 minutes before the ceremony starts. You may arrive earlier than that to have time to park and get situated. If you arrive after the ceremony has already begun you will not be able to be seated, and will have to wait until cocktail hour to see and celebrate with you!

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

We will send out a formal RSVP with the invitation later this year. Please send your response back to us by July 13th at the latest.

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Can I bring a date/plus one?

Answer

Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate additional guests. All invited members of your party will appear on the RSVP form with the formal invitation. Thank you for understanding!

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Is there parking on site for the wedding?

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There is onsite parking at Oak Knolls Manor. Their lovely staff will be there to help you find a spot safely, or you can take the shuttle that will depart from the RIT Inn and Conference Center or Avon Inn. There will be varying times throughout the evening to bring guests back to these locations as the night begins to end

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What type of food will be served?

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We will be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by a buffet dinner with meat choices, salad, and pasta.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes! Our food will be gluten free, but if there are any other dietary restrictions please let us know when you RSVP and we will provide a meal choice that works best for you

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Will there be a bar?

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Yes, we will have an open bar that will serve liquor, beer, wine, cider, and seltzers. We will also have non-alcoholic drink options available.