As you all know, we have been together since April of 2014. What started off as strangers in passing, quickly morphed into something more. Almost nine years later and weāre still just as in love now as we were back then. āWe loved with a love that was more than loveā - Edgar Allan Poe ā¢ā¢ā¢A short story of our first date.ā¢ā¢ā¢ Ericaās POV: I remember seeing him from time to time since we lived close by in the beginning. I kept telling myself that, āyes, heās cute, but not my type.ā I kept telling myself that thereās no way heād be interested. Well, he was interested. He had to ask me out on a date multiple times before I said yes. I kept declining because I was scared to take a chance with him. He finally got me to agree to a āmovie date with friendsā. That movie with āfriendsā? Hahaha it was him with one other guy friend that was completely stoned out of his mind and had no clue about the date. I still laugh every time I think about how much he went through just to get a date with me. We ended up going on our first, real date a few weeks later. We saw Three Days To Kill and had dinner at Peteās in El Dorado Hills. You know how most dates end with a kiss? Ours didnāt⦠not because I didnāt try, but because when I walked him up to the door of his parents house, he already had his key in the lock and was opening the door. I asked him if I could give him a kiss goodnight. Jake opened the door, looked me dead in my eyes and said, āNo, my dad is watching.ā Sure enough, I glanced up and Rob was staring at us. He quickly went into his house and slammed the door in my face. I remember standing there, staring at the door wondering if that really happened. š Needless to say, I didnāt get a kiss that night, but I knew right then and there that we have something special. We still continue the tradition of seeing movies almost weekly. And yes, I get my kisses goodnight. I canāt wait to kiss him goodnight for the rest of my life. Jakeās POV: I remember seeing this cute girl and wanting to know her more. After getting to spend time with her on our āfirstā date, I knew I wanted a real date with her. I remember her feisty attitude when she told me that she will be paying for dinner while I pay for the movies so the date would be equal. We had dinner at Peteās. My girl decides to order fettuccine Alfredo. I think at some point she got so comfortable with me that she forgot she was on her first date with me because as Iām watching her eat, her noodles start flapping and Alfredo sauce is on her cheeks. She paused and suddenly remembered that we were on a date. Her pretty little face turned so red and cute that I couldnāt help but chuckle and help her wipe the sauce from her cheeks. During the movie, (before reclining seats were a thing) she laid her head to rest on my lap and I remember combing my fingers through her hair and thinking to myself that this girl is special. She completely let down her walls and let me love her from the very beginning. As for not kissing on the first date, well.. I got nervous and I knew that if I kissed her, Iād be done for so I said the first thing that came to my mind, and luckily, Pops actually was watching. As I look back on our first date, Iām thankful we decided to take a chance on each other because while our relationship hasnāt been easy, it has been absolutely worth it. Movie dates are still our thing, but now we always kiss each other goodnight. Thank you for reading our story. We canāt wait to create more memories together as Mr. and Mrs. Alberghini.