It's alright to be a little in the dark as to what to expect, we're right there with you! As general information goes: Alaryc uses they/them pronouns and Austin uses he/him pronouns. Austin will be taking Alaryc's last name, so we will be the Carr's! Don't be surprised if you see Alaryc wearing a dress, they wear both masculine and feminine clothing. We understand that understanding and using they/them pronouns might be difficult, however, any intentional misgendering (using the incorrect pronouns or gender) or dead-naming (using a previously held name) is extremely disrespectful and will not be tolerated.
Ceremony begins at 4:00 PM so please arrive by 3:30-3:45 to allow time to park, become acclimated to the space, and find your seat.
Not at all! We want all of our guests to feel comfortable, no matter what the day may hold. Feel free to be as casual or as formal as you feel comfortable with, just keep in mind that it's July, and the weather could turn at any minute. Also bare in mind that this is an outdoor wedding and the ground may be uneven in areas, so you may want to avoid heels.
Please RSVP by May 31st so we know how many people to plan for!
We request that you bring no additional people than the people allowed on the RSVP page. If you contact us we may able to make it happen depending on the expected attendance, but this is a "backyard" wedding, so space is limited.
There will be parking but if you know others attending we ask that you carpool if possible to reduce the number of cars and simplify parking and leaving.
Our registry on Zola is our only registry. We are very happy with most things we have right now, so we are mainly asking for any help building a down payment so we can purchase a house together.