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September 12, 2025
Oakdale, NY

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

If you are able to RSVP when you receive your invitation - that would be great and extremely helpful! To RSVP, click the RSVP tab and type your first and last name(s) listed on your invitation. Kindly reply before the 3rd of July 2025. If you are unable to attend, we would appreciate you to still let us know at the soonest opportunity. Any RSVPs received after this date will be marked as a "no" and you will be missed!

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Can I bring a date?

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We are only able to accommodate guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, your invitation will be addressed to your name and guest. Thank you for understanding!

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What time should I arrive?

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The Mansion will begin welcoming guests at 5:30pm. We recommend guests arrive at least 20 minutes before the start time to mingle and find their seat. The ceremony will begin promptly at 6pm. If you arrive after the stated time, you will be asked to wait until the ceremony is finished and then join us at cocktail hour!

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Will transportation be provided?

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For our guests staying at Hyatt Regency, round trip shuttle service will be provided to and from the Bourne Mansion. Please check back for more information including shuttle arrival and departure times.

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Is there parking at the venue?

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There will be complimentary valet parking at the Bourne Mansion. We do not want anyone drinking and driving. Guests are welcome to leave their vehicles overnight but, they must be picked up the next morning before noon. In addition to the shuttle, Uber and Lyft are available in the area.

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Is there a dress code?

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We'd love for our guests to get dressed up with us! The dress code is Black Tie Optional. Guests are encouraged to wear a tuxedo, dark-colored suit with necktie, an evening gown, or cocktail dress.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

Answer

We want all to be present in the moment and ask that you kindly put your phones away and on silent for an unplugged ceremony. We have an amazing photographer and will share all those photos with you! Thank you in advance for respecting our wishes!

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Will there be an after party?

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While there is no formal after-party, we encourage guests to continue the celebration with us at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. The hotel bar is open until 1:30am, and beer and wine are sold 24/7 in the lobby.

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