Western elegance! We kindly ask guests to wear western inspired attire. For women this includes floor-length and tea length dresses. For men this includes suits or slacks with a button up and jacket (no jeans please). Fringe, cowboy boots and cowboy hats are welcome! Please refer to the formal invitation for suggested color palette and inspo!
Please arrive no later than 4:15pm so you have time to park and grab a seat as we will begin the ceremony promptly at 4:30pm.
Our venue has plenty of parking available for those who drive to the event. There will be signs indicating where to park, in the upper parking lot. If you plan to drink and need a ride, we highly encourage Uber, Lyft or having a DD to get from our event back home safely!
In an effort to keep our wedding day intimate with those who have been apart of our story and limited numbers, we are only able to accommodate the guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!
While we absolutely adore your children, we unfortunately cannot accommodate everyone’s children at our wedding due to restricted numbers. If we were unable to invite your children, we hope this allows you to enjoy a well-deserved night out celebrating with us!
We are so grateful for those of you who are traveling near and far to celebrate with us! If you need somewhere to stay the night before or night of please visit our “Travel” tab to see a few suggested places!
Please kindly respond to our Soft RSVP by May 25th, 2026 to help us better with our planning. The formal invitation will follow June 2026 and kindly respond to that one by September 30th, 2026 so we can inform our vendors accordingly! Refer to the RSVP tab for more info!
If you do not RSVP by September 30th, you will be marked as “not attending.” We would love to celebrate with you, however, we need to provide our vendors with the exact guest count and cannot accept late RSVP’s. This will mean you will not be able to attend our special day, there will be no seating, food or drink accommodations for you.
Yes, we are happy to accommodate most food allergies and dietary restrictions! Please ensure you let us know in advance so we can let our caterer aware and cook accordingly.
Yes, we will have an open bar for all of our guests to enjoy complimentary drinks throughout the event. Please drink responsibly! Order Ubers or have DD’s! Alcohol will be provided by our bartending service. Due to venue policy and regulations, you are NOT allowed to bring any other alcoholic beverages onto the premises.
The ceremony, cocktail hour and reception will be held outside under the beautiful October skies. There are a few areas that have covered patios with outdoor seating and fire pits that can be utilized during cocktail hour and the reception. There is also an indoor space that we will utilize for some of the dancing throughout the night. Bring a sweater in case the cool October breeze becomes too cold… or get up and dance to warm up!
You absolutely can and should! Capture those candid moments that AJ and I might miss! We do ask however that during the ceremony that you take in consideration we are paying a pretty little penny to hire amazing photographers and videographers that will capture the big moments that AJ and I will hold onto forever. Try to keep the phones down and out of view for other guests around you and out of the lens of the professional cameras. Please ensure phones are on silent throughout the ceremony as to not disrupt the special moment. Please share all the photos and videos taken that night with us on the QR code we provide all around the venue. We encourage you to take photos and videos to truly soak in the day and the beautiful venue throughout the night!
You will be extremely missed and we hope to celebrate with you soon! If you cannot attend our wedding please indicate ”Will NOT Attend” on the RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly. If you already RSVP’d “Attending” but find you can no longer make it, please notify Tiana as soon as you are aware.
For any questions or concerns, please feel free to text Tiana at (951)733-4311 or email us at ajandtpapa@gmail.com