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August 12, 2023
Darlington, PA

AJ & Tarsis

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If you have any other questions other that what we have listed here please reach out to TBA
Question

Help! I've never been to a gay wedding before! What do I do?

Answer

A lot of it will be the same as a straight wedding. Have fun, make some memories, and don't get pasta sauce on your shirt. You'll notice some differences. Restrooms will be all-gender. You won't hear words like "bride" or "groom", instead you may hear words like "newlyweds." Remember that a lot of guests are LBGTQ+ themselves, and ask for pronouns or look out for a pronoun pin if you are unsure. That being said, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, or any other type of discriminatory behavior will not be tolerated in this space. We want to make sure all of our family and friends feel welcome.

Question

What should I wear?

Answer

This is a garden themed wedding, so please wear garden party type clothing. Semiformal and renaissance faire type clothing are encouraged. Please feel free to get creative.

Question

What will the weather be like?

Answer

It will be August, which is the middle of Summer here. Please dress light if you are able.

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Will the wedding/reception be indoors or outdoors?

Answer

It will be indoors, but there will be outdoor activities and games! If you need a mask indoors please bring one.

Question

How is parking at the venue?

Answer

Parking is plentiful and free!

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

Absolutely! We will have activities for kids at the reception.

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Can I bring a plus one? What if I am poly?

Answer

All partners are welcome! We ask that you let us know everyone who is coming with you so we will have a chair for them.

Question

I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

Yes, please be sure to let us know ahead of time, otherwise we may not be able to accommodate you.

Question

When should I RSVP by?

Answer

TBA

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Is the venue wheelchair accessible?

Answer

TBA

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