We are thrilled to share the beautiful news— we are married!

It all started on the worn deck of a dojo, where two three-year-olds—Ahren and Samantha—learned balance, discipline, and the art of the bow before they even knew how to tie their own shoes. Childhood teammates, they trained side by side, tiny gis rustling with every tumble, their spirits connected long before they had the words to describe it. Life took them on different paths for a time, but some roots run deep. What never changed was their mothers—two women who saw in each other’s child a missing piece for their own. After many long years, they danced and said, “Lets play match maker.” And as time proved, mothers always know. In 2023, that destiny stirred awake. A casual reunion led to coffee dates in Old Town, where Ahren and Samantha found themselves not only reminiscing about childhood tournaments and dojo memories, but building something far deeper. Their values—respect, loyalty, compassion—reflected back at one another like mirrors. What began as friendship became partnership. What was once playful competition became unwavering support. From the mats of the dojo to the warmth of their favorite café, Ahren and Samantha’s love story is a testament to growth, timing, and a bond years in the making—guided gently by two mothers who always knew that sometimes, soulmates wear tiny belts before they wear wedding rings. We are getting married Monday, July 14, 2025, in Tulum MEX. Please come celebrate with us on Saturday, August 16, 2025, in ABQ, NM @ 6:00PM at 1516 Buck court NW., ABQ, NM 87105. *Join us with your family*