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Abby & JR

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The Wedding Website of JR De Los Reyes and Abby Crain
If you have any questions other than what is listed here, let us know at aj.nc.ca@gmail.com. THATS RIGHT we have a shared email now, how married is that?
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When should I arrive?

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We recommend arriving by Friday evening at the latest. We are hosting Welcome Drinks Friday at 5pm, and if you're in before that we'd love to host you. If you have the PTO, arriving Thursday gives you a safety day for any travel delays + all day Friday to explore the city!

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Which hotel should I book?

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We'd recommend our guests stay at the Skirvin with us. It will make Saturday evening as enjoyable as possible. But, you are welcome to choose the hotel in OKC that makes your heart happy! But be warned: we're hosting an open bar...so don't plan on driving!

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What should I wear?

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WEDDING Formal to Black Tie. The entire event is indoors. Ladies: Long dresses (floor or midi), suit to tux. Go for Elegant. Gents: Long dresses (floor or midi), suit to tux. Go for Elegant. From Abby: Don't wear white, I'm the star. FRIDAY NIGHT Casual to cocktail, comfy to cute. Don't care at all. SUNDAY WAVE OFF PJ's acceptable GENERAL Check the weather - September is still warm in this area, so you might be comfortable in jeans and t shirt, unless they're expecting rain.

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Where are you going with your honeyfund??

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We are officially booked to go to ANTARCTICA!!!! This will truly be the trip of a lifetime, and we're so grateful to anyone who is contributing to this dream!!!!!

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Why OKC?????????

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When we started thinking about our wedding (you know, around year 9) we didn't know where it would be. Where we live in California? In NC near Abby's hometown? ........so we looked up the exact geographic midpoint between our alma maters (CSU Fullerton & UNC Chapel Hill) and it was here: https://www.google.com/maps/@35.3752809,-98.1802434,10z?entry=ttu And since that is NOWHERE, we moved 60 miles over to the nearest city: OKC. You waited 12 years for this wedding....what's one layover??? #nodirectflights #meetmeinthemiddle #yesFINALLY

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