Shelah and Antoine had been talking about marriage for a while, family and friends had been dropping subtle threa -- hints -- on when they would be taking their relationship to the next level. Shelah, being the detective that she is, felt that a proposal was near and began trying to guess when it would happen. With their birthdays being a month apart (April 10th and May 11th) Antoine suggested they take a trip. A trip? This was new to Shelah because they'd never traveled together outside of work. It would be their first time in almost five years going somewhere on a real vacation -- NO work! So Shelah deduced that the proposal would for sure be happening then. A few days before the trip Antoine said, "get ready we are going to dinner." "I don't really want to go to dinner I would rather catch up on "Game of Thrones." "No talk back." So to dinner they went. Shelah was ready to have a quick bite so she could get back to see if John Snow was a Targayen or not -- so when Antoine suggested they catch the view upstairs at the restaurant, she had no idea what was coming. As they walked up the stairs, Shelah heard "Formation" playing. "Who's playing Beyonce?" she asked -- "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!" shouted the room of friends and family. Shelah was so thrown off by "Formation" playing and the decoy Happy Birthday greeting that she didn't even notice Antoine on his knees! :: face palm:: She finally realized what was happening and met eyes with a smiling Antoine on bended knee. The rest is history.