FAQs
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Will I get a plus one?
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We're so excited to celebrate our big day with our closest loved ones. In order to keep our wedding and reception as intimate and meaningful as possible, we kindly ask that only those listed on your invitation attend. Unless a plus-one is specifically indicated, we are unable to accommodate additional guests. Thank you so much for understanding and respecting our wishes on our big day!
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Should I wear a costume?
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No! Even though we are getting married on Halloween, please refrain from wearing a costume to our wedding ceremony and reception. However, feel free to bring a costume, as we will have a dedicated time of our reception to where you can change into one if you please.
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Are kids allowed?
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We love your little ones - but for this special day, we kindly ask that you make arrangements for a child-free evening. Our wedding and reception will be a 16+ event. We kindly ask that you make childcare arrangements ahead of time, as no children under 16 will be permitted - no exceptions. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you!
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Can I photograph during the ceremony?
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We kindly ask that all guests please refrain from taking photos or videos during our ceremony. We've hired a professional photographer/videographer to capture every special moment, and we want everyone fully present with us. Please turn off and put away your phones before the ceremony begins - we promise to share the beautiful photos afterwards. Thank you for helping us create an intimate, distraction and disruption free atmosphere as we say, "I do." Please note that the Bride and Groom reserve the right to send you the wedding invoice if your phone starts ringing during the ceremony (We're kidding, but seriously, please make sure your phones are off!)
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Is there a dress code?
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We kindly ask that you wear semi-formal attire to celebrate with us. For our gentlemen guests, we encourage suits and ties.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! We will be having three signature drinks (Old Fashioned, Mojitos, and Lemon Drop Martini's), as well as an array of wine and beer. Of course, we will also have non-alcoholic beverages available as well.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP as soon as possible. Your RSVP helps us to finalize all the important details - like seating, food, and drinks - so we'd really appreciate hearing from you by September 15, 2026. Unfortunately, if you miss the RSVP deadline, you will not be able to attend our ceremony.
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Am I invited to the ceremony?
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Your invitation will clearly indicate whether you're invited to the ceremony, the reception, or both. If you received a reception-only invitation, please know we still want to celebrate with you - the ceremony is simply limited for space and personal reasons.
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Where should I park?
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Our venue has a lot across the street for you to park at, and there will be signs directing you. We kindly ask that if you need to be dropped off at the venue, the responsible party not park in our main venue's lot, as your car will end up being in all of our photos.
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What time should I arrive?
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Ceremony guests: Please arrive 15-20 minutes before the listed ceremony start time. If you are late, you will not be permitted to enter the ceremony after it begins out of respect for the bride and groom. You will be asked to wait until the ceremony is over to join the celebration.
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Why are the ceremony and reception guest lists different?
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We're having a small, intimate ceremony with just our immediate family and a few very close loved ones. This allows us to keep that part personal and private while still celebrating with everyone we care about at the reception afterwards.
