Our wedding attire is formal / black tie optional. We’d love for everyone to dress up and celebrate with us in style! Think elegant, festive, and cozy winter wedding vibes.
Absolutely! Children are warmly welcomed and very much part of our celebration. We can’t wait to celebrate with all of our favorite people — little ones included!
If your invitation includes a plus one, it will be listed on your RSVP. Due to venue capacity, we unfortunately can’t accommodate additional guests beyond those listed.
We kindly ask guests to avoid wearing white, ivory, or anything that could photograph similarly to the brides’ outfits. Our bridesmaids will be wearing red, so we kindly ask guests to avoid wearing the same shade of red if possible. We especially encourage rich, warm winter tones such as: * Emerald or forest green * Black * Chocolate brown * Champagne or gold * Deep pink or berry tones * Navy * Velvet textures and jewel tones December evenings can be chilly, so coats, wraps, faux fur, and layered formalwear are absolutely welcome!
We recommend arriving about 30 minutes before the ceremony begins so everyone has time to park, settle in, and silence their phones before we start.
Yes! Parking information and any transportation details will be added closer to the wedding weekend.
We ask that guests keep phones and cameras away during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present with us. Once cocktail hour and the reception begin, please take all the photos you’d like!
Yes — come ready to celebrate, dance, and enjoy the evening with us!
Yes! We’ll have a hotel block and recommended accommodations listed on the Travel page of our website.
Your presence is the greatest gift, but if you’d like to celebrate with a gift, our registry information will be linked on the website.
We met 9 years ago while working together at Walgreens in Hastings, Michigan. One of our favorite memories from the beginning of our relationship was watching weddings from the lake near Bay Pointe Inn — and now we finally get to celebrate our own.