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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
September 5, 2020
Ashburn, Virginia
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Chido & Jayson

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Jayson

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Chido

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#GoingLoder

September 5, 2020

Ashburn, Virginia

How We Met

"Let's get ready to Bumble!"

If you ask Chido this is her story. I had moved back home from Chicago, I honestly wasn't looking for anything. I got on Bumble. So bumble caters to women so I need to make the first move when we match. I had matched with Jayson but I forgot to message him. Now for those of you who don't know how Bumble works. After you match you have 24hrs to respond to the man. He used his only "Extend option", Which made me notice him. Fast forward to our meeting (I facetimed him before just in case he wasn't himself) I, unfortunately, got into a car accident before our date. Jayson had tickets to the Washington Nationals to go to the World Series ( They didn't make it, and neither did we). A week later we ended up doing Taco Tuesday, I Finally meet my 6'2 tall glass of milk, we had the best Taco Tuesday ever and I was sure he would fall in love with me that night...I didn't even get a kiss goodnight! Why did I stay you ask? It was the baby blue eyes! I was hooked without even knowing it. Long story short my best friend took me out on a few more dates before he asked me to be his girlfriend at Copper Hawk Winery in 2017. Jayson's Side of things: So here is my side of the story. Yes, we met on Bumble. Yes, I was patiently waiting for a response, but if it wasn’t for me this whole thing would have never of happened! Thankfully I used my time extension wisely. After I finally got her attention we FaceTimed and I passed her “is he real, is he a creep test”. Our first date was supposed to be to a Nationals baseball game the NLCS vs the Cubs winner goes to the World Series no big deal right. Unfortunately, Chido had an accident the day before the date she had to cancel. Luckily the following week we made it to taco Tuesday after a great night I gave her a hug goodbye making her anxiously waiting for that first kiss until the next time I saw her. A few more dates later I knew I needed her to be my girlfriend. Now she is my best friend and soon to be wife!

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