A Jewish Wedding Tradition Open to all without expectation Between the Wedding Dinner & Cake, on 11/9/2019 at 6:15pm. Jewish weddings are very festive events. Guests are invited (not required) to entertain the Bride and Groom in the “wedding schtick” traditional ritual. You might prepare a song, toast, poem, juggling act, magic trick, speech, meditation, celebratory yoga pose, aerial ballet, interpretive dance, etc.