FAQ

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What should I wear, is there a dress code?

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We'd love to see our family and friends get fancy with us! We are requesting black tie optional attire.

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What is Black tie optional?

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Black tie optional, Tuxes or dark colored suits for men. Long evening gowns for woman. Men please refrain from wearing jeans, and khakis. Women floor length is preferred or ankle length. (a slit is acceptable)

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When should I RSVP by?

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Kindly RSVP no later then May 30th 2026

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What time should I arrive?

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Our ceremony will begin at the church at three in the afternoon. Please arrive no more then thirty minutes prior to the ceremony starting.

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I'm still not sure what to wear? (for men)

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For men it's pretty straight forward. Tux's are preferred but if you don't have one/don't want to rent one a dark suit and tie is okay.

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I'm still not sure what to wear? (for women)

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For ladies picking a dress might be more difficult because you are unsure of the vibe. I would like spring/summer colors blues, greens, yellows, pinks, florals, etc. no black if possible. More is better in my opinion, you can't be to over dressed ball gowns are fine by be;). For shoes that it is up to you the whole evening will be both indoors and outdoors so wear stilettos at your discretion.

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Can I wear my military uniform?

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Yes, Military uniforms are perfectly acceptable. Please wear either choker whites for navy or Service dress whites for marine corps or the equivalent.

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Are children welcome?

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While we love your little ones. Our wedding will be an adults only event (with the exception of nursing infants) so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. Parents I know you'll appreciate some adult time! We thank you for making arrangements for child care ahead of time. Thank you for understanding!

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Can I take pictures of the wedding ceremony?

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We are kindly asking that all phones and devices be put away and on silent/turned off during our ceremony. We have hired professionals to capture this moment in our lives and we wouldn't want a phone blocking the professionals way. After the ceremony please feel free to take as as many pictures as you would like!

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Where is the Wedding?

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The reception will take place at The Quinta do Tornerio in Paço de Arcos, while the Cermony will be at a nearby church the Igreja Matriz de Oeiras, in Oeiras, right outside of Lisbon Portugal.

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Will the ceremony be at the same location as the reception?

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No, the ceremony will be at Igreja Matriz de Oeiras church about ten minutes away from the reception venue.

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Will there be transportation from the church to the reception?

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Yes, we have provided bus transportation for everyone who desires from the church to the venue.

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Where should I park if I rented a car?

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There is plenty of parking at the reception venue, so you can park right out front. If you decide to drive to the church then there is parking in town. However we are also providing bus transportation from the church to the villa. if you do not want to drive yourself.

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Will the Reception be indoors or outdoors?

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Cocktail hour will be both outdoor and indoors. Reception will be outdoors. While dancing will take place indoors.

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What is the attire for the brunch the day before?

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The attire for the Champagne and charcuterie brunch on July 14th will be garden party formal. For ladies a sundress to a maxi/tea length dress in pastels and florals will be perfect (hats are also more then welcome it will be in the gardens outside). For men please wear light/pastel colored suits, a tie is not required. (please no flip flops men).

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What will the bridal party be wearing?

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The bridal party will be wearing light pink/gold.

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Will food and drinks be served?

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Yes! Cocktails and hour d'oeuvres will be at the venue after the ceremony. Dinner and open bar to follow.

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Do I have a plus one?

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There will be a plus one indicated on your Save the Date & Invitation.

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Am I invited to the Rehearsal Dinner?

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We will be having a very small and intimate dinner with just the wedding party. You will have an invitation if invited.

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I still have questions, what's the best way to contact you?

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If you still have questions that aren't listed here on the Q&A please don't hesitate to reach out to Abdon or myself. We respond quickest to text message. Eliza +1 (830)-431-1250 Abdon +1 (215)-876-5761