FAQs

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Transportation

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Shuttles will depart from behind Our Lady Star of the Sea Church at 4:30 PM to bring guests to The Reeds for cocktail hour and the reception. (Only those who requested transportation during the RSVP responses. Limited space is available) There is about a 1.5-hour gap between the ceremony and shuttle departure. During this time, feel free to explore the nearby shops, restaurants, and bars around the church — it’s a great area to grab a drink, a bite, or just enjoy a stroll! Shuttles will bring guests from The Reeds back to Cape May at 10 PM, 11 PM, and 12 AM

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Parking

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Church: Pay-to-Park ACME lot right next door Pay-to-park spots on Carpenter’s Lane & surrounding streets Reception: Valet parking available at the hotel for $15 Street and pay-to-park options within walking distance Tip: Cape May is especially busy during the summer season — please plan to arrive 15–20 minutes early to allow extra time for parking at both locations.

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Black Tie Optional

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Tuxedos & Gowns or Suits & Formal Dresses

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Will we be outside?

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Cocktail Hour is to be held outside on the Veranda at The Reeds. The reception is inside, but if it is a warm night, the french doors to the ballroom will remain open all night.

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Adults Only Celebration

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With the exception of Abby's cousins