FAQs
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how do I RSVP?
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Please RSVP by visiting our website and following the instructions at this link: https://www.zola.com/wedding/abbyandben2025/rsvp.
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is there a dress code?
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Yes, we’d love to see our friends and family dress up with us! We are requesting cocktail attire for our wedding. Please no jeans, bathing suits, shorts, t-shirts, or flip flops.
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can i bring a plus one?
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No, we can only accommodate guests who have been formally invited to the wedding. If you received a plus one it will appear on your invitation.
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are kids welcome?
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No, we are a kid-free wedding and would love for all of our guests to enjoy the party. We are hoping this is a much deserved night off for the parents.
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when should i arrive?
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Our recommendation is to arrive on-site 15-30min before the ceremony start. The ceremony will be begin at 4:30pm. Please arrive early enough to park, walk, find your seat, get settled and socialize before the ceremony begins.
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is there parking available at the venue?
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Yes! Parking is available at the venue.
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will there be an open bar?
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Yes! We will have beer, wine and signature cocktails available at no costs to guests. Any other drinks that are not beer, wine or signature cocktails are available for guest purchase.
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can i have personal alcohol on site?
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Personal alcohol can only be consumed freely in your respective accommodation. Please be discrete if carrying alcohol throughout the property by using covered cups, tumblers and cleaning up after yourself. During the ceremony, reception, and any other official event please refrain from having personal alcohol of any kind outside of your accommodation. For these official events, alcohol will be provided.
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can i come early?
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Yes, all guests are welcome to come throughout the day of the ceremony and enjoy the lakefront property. Please keep in mind, wedding party will be unavailable. Formal invitations will be sent out for meals and events.
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what happens after the ceremony?
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After the ceremony please make your way back to the inn for cocktail hour.
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i have a food allergy, can i make a special request?
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Kindly indicate any dietary restrictions on your RSVP. Dinner will be served buffet-style with a variety of options, and we’re happy to accommodate any special dietary needs. Please note, our wedding will be nut-free.
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can i smoke on site?
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No. This venue prohibits smoking anywhere on the premises, including outdoors on the property.
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are there bathrooms available at the ceremony site by the lake?
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Yes, bathrooms are available behind the gazebo at the ceremony site.
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How can I contact the couple for questions?
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For any questions, feel free to contact Abby at 207-317-0600 or Ben at 207-671-5045.
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Is the venue pet-friendly?
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No, unfortunately, the venue is not pet-friendly. We appreciate your understanding!
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what are the bridesmaids wearing?
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The bridesmaids will be wearing dresses in Eucalyptus Green from Azazie, but they each chose their own style—same color, different looks! We know some guests like to plan ahead to avoid matching with the wedding party, so just a heads up in case that’s helpful. But honestly, wear whatever makes you feel great!