Matthew and Abagale
Questions & Answers
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How do I RSVP?
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You can click the RSVP tab above and RSVP at any time. You can also send either of us a message to confirm you will be there for our big day!
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What is the RSVP cut-off date?
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To ensure that everyone is accounted for at our wedding, we ask you to please RSVP by the 20th of July 2025.
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What should I do if I cannot make it?
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You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding please indicate "will NOT be attending" on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP's "attending" but find that you will not make it, please notify Abbie as soon as you are aware.
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Can I bring a date/plus one?
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We are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. Your invite will be made out to "(your name) & (guest name/guest)" if a plus one has been given to you. If there is a mistake on the invitation please feel free to reach out to either Abbie or MJ.
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Are kids allowed?
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Although we love your children, we regretfully cannot accommodate everyone's children at our wedding. This pertains to all ages including infants, toddlers, kids, and teens. Please refer to the RSVP tab to see if we were able to accommodate your children. If we were unable to invite your children, we hope you see this as an opportunity to take the night off and enjoy the party with us!
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What should I wear?
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We would love to see all of our loved ones dressed up with us for our big day! Think cocktail attire, dresses, skirts, rompers, button-up shirts, sports jackets, etc! Please avoid the color white or cream! Reminder it will be fall in the midwest, so please dress accordingly as our ceremony will be held outdoors, but the reception will be indoors. Thanks for understanding and respecting this request!
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Is there parking available at the venue?
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Yes, there is. If you choose one of our suggested hotels they are within walking distance as well!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please arrive at the venue no later than 20 minutes before the ceremony. This will allow time for you to park, sign the guest book, and find your seat. Thanks for being so understanding of our special day!
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Can I take pictures?
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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" so no phones or cameras, we have hired an awesome photography team for that. The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present when we say "I do". After the ceremony please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!
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I have a question not answered on here, how do I contact you?
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If you still have questions that are not answered here, please feel free to call or text me (Abbie). I appreciate you taking the time to read this and I hope this can alleviate any questions/concerns.