Cocktail attire - adjacent. We're really not very strict on this. Just look nice. If you look bad in photos because you dressed poorly, that's your fault.
Whatever makes you happy. We do not care. However, our bridal party is dressed in maroon, so if you don't want passive-aggressive looks, you may want to avoid that one.
Please arrive around 3:30 pm-3:45 pm. We will begin promptly at 4:00 pm.
The venue is very strict, and everyone must be out by 10:00 pm. I'm assuming everything will end around 9:30 pm. You're welcome old folks. For the young ones - sorry.
Yes, ceremony and reception are both at Monji. No relocation necessary. Couldn't afford gas.
Dinner will be catered by Abbie’s uncle, Terry Kirkindoll. W uncle. He will be preparing a chicken tomato cream pasta dish with a side salad and bread. And there will of course be cake later on. If you have a dietary restriction, PLEASE contact Abbie at 661-747-1190. We don't have a very flexible menu, but we will do our best to figure out an accommodation for you. Everyone deserves to eat.
Not a full bar. But there will be complimentary red wine, white wine, beer, frozen mango margaritas, and frozen watermelon vodkaritas. Drink your heart out.
Please have your RSVP response in by August 15th, 2026.
If you have any questions, please reach out to Abbie at 661-747-1190 or Liam at 314-262-1059, and we can help you out. No worries! Abbie loves questions. Liam tolerates questions.