Yes! We are giving you lovely parents the option. The welcome dinner will have a photographer to capture family photos so you can bring the kids just for that or for both nights! We will have a nanny there to watch over the kids as well.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.