Robert White
Zoelle Rowen
Robert White
Zoelle Rowen
April 22, 2026
Registry
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Wedding Party
Zoelle
Bride
Mom of 4 and Corrections Officer who is excited to finally get married to her prince charming. Zoelle enjoys reading in her limited spare time.
Bob (Robert)
Groom
"Someone save me!" Bob has all the jokes. He's a Dad of three with one bonus daughter. Bob is in Army Reserves and has served for 18 years so far. He enjoys making videos, playing pokemon go, OSRS and dungeon and dragons. Fun fact: he chose the "One" ring from LOTR as his wedding band and it was made by the same company who made the original movie prop rings. Just look how handsome he is.
Aerabella (Bell)
Junior Flower Girl
Aerabella is the oldest of our children. She loves to draw cartoons and learn about animals. She can tell you many unique things about cats and amphibians. She aspires to be a photographer when she grows up.
Elijah (Eli)
Lead Ring Security
Eli is our oldest boy but our middle child. He is very active and loves to help where he can (even if help really isn't helping...). Elijah loves spiderman and pokemon. He enjoys build things using any blocks or material he can gather. He has a super cheesy smile and even more cheesy joke (gets it from dad). We love that he is always ready to learn and do new things.
Melody (Princess)
Mini Flower Girl
Melody is the youngest of our girls but the most spunky of the group. She enjoys doing things that will get her brothers into trouble. Melody loves to dress up in true princess fashion wearing all the pretty dresses with bright colors or sparkles and her long hair up in a ponytail. She will absolutely cry if you put her in pants or shorts. You would think this means she likes to do other princess things but she prefers to throw down with the boys and either rough play or clib everything she can. She does like to dance and sing with Ms.Rachel but if she's with her brothers she's looking for adventure.
Maverick (Mav)
Mini Ring Security
Maverick is the youngest of 4, born a couple minutes after his twin sister. He is our sensitive soul how is always kind and caring. Mav loves a good meal and has never said no to more snacks. He is a very clean baby/toddler compared to his siblings. Maverick is cautious of strangers and always looks for mom and dad. If he thinks you are hurting Melody though, he's ready to square up. Maverick takes the brunt of the trouble from his sister's schemes. He is always down for cuddles with mom or dad.
FAQs
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Will there be alcohol?
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As the groom does not dink and the bride rarely does, it has been decided that this will be a dry wedding. No alcohol will be served and we ask that you respect our wishes and do not bring any either. We would like to see everyone make it home safely and do not condone drinking and driving. Water, tea and lemonade will be provided from Mission BBQ with the toast being sparkling grape juice or cider.
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What type of food will be provided?
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We have chosen to have Mission BBQ cater our wedding! They support veterans and first responders in addition to providing delicious food. Our menue consists of Beef brisket, pulled pork, and pulled chicken for the meats. For the main sides there will be Maggie's mac n cheese, fresh buttered corn, and cheesy potatoes. These options will be served along side slider rolls and Cornbread. Various cheese, crackers, and fruit will also be available for the grazing hour.
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What type of music will you play?
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We are switching things up and not having a DJ. Instead we are going to have live music played by an electric violinist.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please have your response in by March 22, 2026. As we only have seating for 50 people we ask that you respond as soon as you are able. This will help us determine seating and food
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Is there a dress code?
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Its a garden wedding! Think of pastels and florals or even repurpose your Easter outfit. We do ask that you refrain from wearing white, ivory, champagne or nudes colors as these colorsare reserved for the flower girls and bride. For men we ask that you refrain from wearing navy or dark blue as these colors are for the ring bearers and groom.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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If you have a food allergy please contact us as soon as possible so that we can accommodate this! As of right now there will be no fresh onion in any dish due to family food allergies.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Anticipate arriving between 1100 and 1120 as the ceremony will begin at 11:30 A.M.
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Are kids welcome?
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Due to limited seating availability within the venue contract we ask that this be limited to children named on the invites address " ... Family". Please contact the bride should you have questions regarding this for further information and to see if we can accommodate more children. Please also note that this wedding is occurring on a Wednesday during school hours.
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Can I bring a date?
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We ask that only the persons listed on the invites attend, however please reach out to the bride to see if another person could be accommodated. There is a venue limit of 50 persons for our wedding but should availability open up we will reach out to let you know you can bring a plus one. This is an intimate ceremony and reception and apologize for any inconvenience this may add.
RSVP
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