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Soon to be Spoos
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Valarie Duncan

and

Seth Spoo

Valarie Duncan

and

Seth Spoo

September 20, 2025

Tulsa, OK
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The Wedding Website of Seth Spoo and Valarie Duncan
Please let us know your plans by August 30th. We are so excited to celebrate with you!

Please enter the first and last name of one member of your party below.
If you're responding for you and a guest (or your family), you'll be able to RSVP for your entire group on the next page.

Ex. Sarah Fortune (not The Fortune Family or Dr. & Mr. Fortune)

Registry

FAQs

Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

Cocktail attire! For men a suite or dress shirt, and for women a dress, or nice pantsuit would be fine! Think more formal than casual and less formal than black tie. While it is typically still warm in Tulsa in September, the wedding and reception are both inside!

Question

Are there any colors you’d prefer me to wear?

Answer

Other than white, feel free to be dressed in any color. We love light colors or neutrals, but whatever makes you comfortable! The wedding colors are light blue if you want to avoid being in the same color as the wedding party, but that color is totally fine to wear if that’s your color!

Question

Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions?

Answer

There will be gluten free options available.

Question

Plus one?

Answer

Unless you have been told you can bring a plus one, we ask that only the guests on the RSVP list attend.

Question

Am I going to the private reception?

Answer

We love you all and would be happy to further celebrate with everyone, but to limited space we ask only attendees on the RSVP list join the reception. If you are still unsure feel free to reach out and ask. The ceremony is open for anyone who would like to join. The more the merrier!

Question

Additional questions?

Answer

Feel free to reach out to either of us or our families if you have any questions.

Travel

Hotel

Courtyard by Marriott Tulsa Downtown

415 South Boston Ave, Tulsa, Oklahoma
 +38370174825

In close walking distance from venue!

Hotel

Tulsa Club Hotel Curio Collection by Hilton

115 East 5th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma
 1-9185825722

Quick walk to the venue!

Hotel

Hampton Inn and Suites Tulsa-South Bixby

8220 East Regal Place, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74133
 

About a 20-30 min drive, but a cheaper option in a nice and safe area with lots of places to eat in a walkable distance.

Things To Do

Philbrook Museum of Art and Gardens

Philbrook Museum of Art and Gardens

2727 South Rockford Road, Tulsa, OK 74114

It’s like you’re in Tuscany!

Utica Square

Utica Square

1709 Utica Square, Tulsa, OK 74114

Upscale places to shop and more casual places to eat!

Tulsa Premium Outlets

Tulsa Premium Outlets

801 East Outlet Drive, Jenks, OK 74037

Outdoor outlet mall with tons of brands!

Gathering Place and Zinc Lake

Gathering Place and Zinc Lake

2650 South John Williams Way, Tulsa, OK 74114

Take a walk on riverside or explore inside the gathering place! Lots to do!

Wedding Party

Nora Duncan

Maid of Honor

Erin Murfin

Maid of Honor

Kira Floyd

Bridesmaid

Zoë Spoo

Bridesmaid

Grace Wall

Bridesmaid

Chandler Knight

Bridesmaid

Mackenzie Shephard

Bridesmaid

Caleb Spoo

Groom

Nathan Floyd

Groomsman

Cade Crone

Groomsman

Cole Stockton

Groomsman

Clint Hurst

Groomsman

Blake Sanders

Groomsman

Peyton Russell

Groomsman

Caleb Campbell

Groomsman

Schedule

Saturday, September 20, 2025

Wedding

4:00 pm - 9:30 pm

First Baptist Church Tulsa
420 S Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK 74120