5:30 pm
Cocktail Attire
Ceremony and Reception will be at Loose Mansion.
Hotel
Our hotel block is listed under Trost-Hammontree Wedding. You are able to edit if you will be staying for one night or multiple through the website. If you click "book now" on the wanted room type, there should be a modify option. Under modify, guests can edit the check in/out dates.
Officiant
Annie and Melanie met in 2007 and instantly recognized each other as kindred spirits. Bonding over Harry Potter, dry humor, and an unspoken understanding of the world, their friendship has always felt like a quiet kind of magic. Having Annie as the officiant isn't just fitting-it's a full circle moment of heart, trust, and soul-deep connection.
Matron of Honor
Maggie has known Melanie since 1999, which means they've been causing absolute baffoonery together for over two decades. Their bond was forged through childhood playground games, wildly imaginative adventures, and a mutual ability to turn literally anything into a storyline. Not much has changed-they can still be found getting lost in plants, laughter, and unending tangents that somehow always circle back to the same five inside jokes. She's not just a sister-she's the original co-star in Melanie's lifelong sitcom.
Matron of Honor
Katie is a sister-friend in every sense of the word. She and Melanie met in 2007 during sorority rush, bonding instantly over their shared habit of overdramatizing rush dances and songs like "Any Gam of Mine"-and it's been love ever since. Their friendship has survived many years of shenanigans, highly coordinated mischief, and heart-to-hearts, often over queso or questionable decisions. Sisterhood, sparkle, and a hint of chaos- and that's their brand. *This photo is of the bride and matrons of honor circa 2009.
Best Man
Taylor isn’t just a lifelong friend—he’s family. As Trent’s best friend growing up, he naturally became like an older brother to Tyler too—someone who showed up with advice, mischief, and a steady presence through every season. Their bond was built in Blue Mills and shaped by years of backyard adventures, inside jokes, and the kind of friendship that just sticks. Brotherhood, loyalty, and a shared history that runs deep.
Best Man
Tyler met Barney on day one of high school golf—walking up to hole #1 at Winterstone. That was it. Instant connection. From Fort Osage golf to brief roommates in Joplin, Tuesday league rounds to family holidays, Barney and Tyler have been best friends and life-long brothers ever since. A bond forged in fairways, fortified in friendship, and as steady as a seven-iron on a good day.
Flower Girl
Flower Girl
Flower Girl
Ring Bearer
Cocktail attire! Think fun, polished, and ready to dance. Feel free to bring some flair-we'll be celebrating in style!
Yes! We will have a full open bar with beer, wine, and non-alcoholic options for all.
If your invitation includes a guest, we'd love for you to bring them! If not, we hope you'll still join us solo-we promise you'll be in great company.
We love your little ones, but this will be an adults-only celebration. Take the night off and enjoy!
Yes-there is a parking lot on location at Loose Mansion.
Please RSVP by September 6th so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!
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