On June 6th, 2022, Trevor and Victoria matched on the online dating app, Hinge. Victoria asked Trevor what his perfect day looked like. Trevor said, "spending a full day at the beach with friends, playing volleyball, taking a nap, and then ending the day with a 'lowkey house party'. What about you?" Victoria responded by saying, "my perfect day involves sleeping in and waking up in a new city, grabbing brunch with friends, having dinner at a place with live music, and then ending the day with a comedy show." A couple of days later, Trevor asked Victoria on a first date to Penmar Golf Club's Live Music Summer Sessions and they spent the night chatting away, listening to live music, and eating tacos. More than four years later, their life together is a combination of both of their perfect days. If you're looking for them, you'll find them on the beach, hanging out with friends, on a plane to somewhere new, rocking out at a live show, or at the occasional 'lowkey house party.' As it turns out, their perfect days were always meant to be shared with each other.
Trevor and Victoria have elected to have an adult-only (over 21) wedding ceremony and reception on 8/21/26. We deeply appreciate our parent guests making arrangements in advance—we hope you enjoy a well-deserved night off and can’t wait to celebrate with you! Children (under 21) are allowed to attend the Friday Welcome Party on 8/20 and Sunday Goodbye Beach Day on 8/22.
If your invitation includes a guest, their name or "and Guest" will be explicitly listed on your formal invite and mailed envelope; due to venue capacity, we can only accommodate those formally named.
Check 'Schedule' for the suggested attire for each event.
Thousand Oaks in August is hot and sunny. At 5:30pm, it will be 85 degrees (hot) but the sun shouldn't be shining directly into your eyes. At night, it will cool down to 75 degrees (warm and breezy). No jackets needed! But pack sunscreen and sunglasses.
The entire event (including ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner, and dancing) will take place outdoors. Note: For those wearing high heels, there is both grass and gravel at the venue.
Please RSVP by July 1st, so we can have an accurate headcount.
Yes! We are so excited to get married and start this next big chapter of our lives. If you'd like to get us a gift, we've compiled a list of items that would bring us immense happiness, joy, and fun. Thank you so much for your generosity in advance - we love you! https://www.zola.com/registry/tranmartinwedding
Please arrive by 5:30pm to get seated. The ceremony will begin promptly at 6:00 pm. Any latecomers will be asked to wait outside the gates until the ceremony is over to avoid disruption.
Yes, there is tons of free self-parking. If you prefer, we are also chartering a shuttle to take guests between select hotels (See 'Transportation' section) and the venue.
Yes, of course. There will also be self-serve mocktails and sodas available for non-drinkers.
Hotel
USE LINK TO GET A DISCOUNTED RATE $170/night for King $180/night for Double Queen for 2 people, $10 extra for additional people Comes with free breakfast and overnight parking 2 night minimum - offer ends 7/21/27 10 min drive/uber to welcome party 11 min drive/uber to venue The wedding day bus shuttle will stop here *Note: This hotel will be finished renovating in April 2027 and become 'Best Western Aiden,' a more upscale boutique hotel*
Hotel
USE LINK TO GET A DISCOUNTED RATE $179/night for 1 King Room (with Sofa Bed) $189/night for 2 Queen Room Comes with free breakfast and discounted $10/night parking 2 night minimum - offer ends 7/21/27 13 min uber to welcome party venue 13 min drive/uber to wedding venue The wedding day bus shuttle will stop here
Discount Code - TMW
Hotel
USE LINK TO GET A DISCOUNTED RATE $209/night for King Suite (with Sofa Bed and Kitchen) Comes with free breakfast and overnight parking 2 night minimum - offer ends 7/21/27 12 min drive/uber to welcome party 14 min drive/uber to venue The wedding day bus shuttle will stop here
Hotel
Approx $240/night 12 min drive/uber to welcome party 13 min drive/uber to venue The wedding day bus shuttle will stop here