Bryce Bontrager
Tonia McRunnel
Bryce Bontrager
Tonia McRunnel
October 31, 2025
Our love story
We met in 2019 through a dating app—two people, a little nervous, but both quietly hoping for something real. From the beginning, there was a softness to the connection, a gentle kind of kindness that made it feel safe to open up. We both tried to make each other comfortable right away, and in that space, we found something rare: the freedom to just be ourselves. Our love didn’t unfold all at once—it was something that grew with time, patience, and a lot of heart. And like most real love stories, ours hasn't been without its challenges. We've faced hard moments, and at one point, we made the difficult decision to take time apart—not out of anger or loss, but out of a shared desire to grow, to heal, and to come back to each other stronger. That time gave us perspective, deeper understanding, and an even greater appreciation for the bond we share. We learned that love isn’t just about the good times—it’s about choosing each other even when things aren’t easy. It's about holding space for growth, for forgiveness, and for the kind of connection that’s built on truth and acceptance. We accept each other completely—flaws, quirks, and all. Our relationship is rooted in a love that sees beyond the surface and holds onto the heart of who we really are. We didn’t just find love. We chose it. Again and again.
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FAQs
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Is there a gift registry?
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Not really, no pressure but mostly we are accepting cash to go towards our trip and/or towards our home as our love and family grows. Nothing is expected, but greatly appreciated with so much love.
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How can we celebrate you?
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We would really love it if our loved ones would write us a letter, words of advice, or tips on how to keep our love strong to read on our wedding day together. This would be a beautiful way to bring parts of you all there with us. Just mail us at 511 W. Main St. Ada, MN 56510
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Why are you choosing to elope?
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Well for us, this isn’t our first marriages for one. We understand the cost and conflicts that can come with planning a wedding, we wanted to eliminate as much of that as we could as well. Our number 1 reason though, this journey has been very special to us as a couple and we wanted to share in the intimacy of the moment without the distractions primarily. Be in the moment together as much as possible.
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Will there be a reception when you get back?
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At this time, no. Due to the holidays around the corner when we get back, we have no intention of planning anything at this time. If enough requests, we may plan something after the winter months have passed.
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Why is there not much information on your website?
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Because it is just a simple elopement with just the two of us. Colorado is a self marrying state. Keeping it simple.
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Will we get to see or hear/see your wedding ceremony?
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Yes, we are planning to record the actual vow exchange for memory sake and anyone who would like to view our vow exchange.
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Will there be photos?
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Yes, we have plans to capture as much of our day and trip as possible to share with everyone.
Wedding Party
Tonia
Bride
Bryce
Groom
Schedule
Things To Do
We're making a list of our favorite activities and sights in the area. Check back soon.
Travel
We're working on gathering some recommendations for our out-of-towner guests. Stay tuned!