We started dating in November of 2005. To celebrate 20 years as a couple, we have decided to have a vow renewal ceremony and reception. When we got married in December of 2008, we planned a wedding that was supposed to be held on a good date when the army would allow Tom to be home. Perhaps you remember receiving the save-the-date card. Months before the wedding, Tom's orders changed, and we had to cancel our wedding. Perhaps you will also remember the cancel-the-date card. We said to each other that one day we would have a "wedding," but with moving and children, "one day" moved further and further away. That is, until now. Please join us as we celebrate 20 years as a couple and 18 years married! We hope to get our loved ones together for laughs and dancing. We aren't getting any younger and want to spend time with you all on our important day!