Gabe first took notice of Dee at the gym, but she was not interested. Luckily for them, Gabe was accustomed to dedication and persistence, so he did not give up. After getting to know each other a bit more Dee finally agreed to go on a walk with Gabe along with his two wing men, Chevy and Smokey. Little did they know, that walk down by the lake would plant the seed of a love that has continued to flourish everyday since.
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What should I wear? As the ceremony requires sitting on the floor we recommend comfortable but modest attire. For all guests: Shoulders and legs should be covered Please avoid low-cut tops, short skirts, or shorts Head coverings are required for everyone (men and women). Scarves and bandanas will be available at the Gurdwara if needed. Suggested attire: Women: dresses with sleeves, long skirts, or traditional Indian attire such as salwar kameez. Men: dress shirts with trousers, or traditional Indian attire such as kurta pajama Bright colors are welcome and encouraged—black is not required or expected. Do I need to cover my head? Yes. As a sign of respect, all guests must cover their heads while inside the Gurdwara. If you forget, coverings will be provided at the entrance. Do I need to remove my shoes? Yes. Shoes must be removed before entering the prayer hall. Shoe racks will be available.
4:30 pm - 11:30 pm
Guests are encouraged to dress polished and festive. Women: Cocktail, midi, or knee-length dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or elegant skirts and tops are all great options. Men: Suits or dress pants with a button-down shirt are recommended; a tie is welcome but not required. Indian party attire such as sarees, lehengas, salwar suits, kurtas are also warmly welcomed.
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Milni: 10:00 AM Breakfast (Vegetarian): 10:15 AM Anand Karaj Ceremony: 11:00 AM Lunch (Vegetarian): 1:00 PM
Milni is a joyful pre-wedding tradition where members of both families formally meet and greet one another. Milni: 10:00 AM Breakfast: 10:15 AM
An Anand Karaj is the Sikh wedding ceremony. The words mean “Blissful Union.” The ceremony is spiritual in nature and takes place in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib, the Sikh holy scripture. The focus is on equality, commitment, and a shared spiritual journey.
The marriage ceremony includes four sacred hymns, called the Lavan, which guide the couple as they walk together around the Guru Granth Sahib. Each Lavan represents a stage of marriage and spiritual growth. 1. First Lavan – Commitment This step represents the commitment to live a truthful, faithful life together, grounded in responsibility and mutual respect. 2. Second Lavan – Love & Partnership This stage reflects the deepening of love and trust as the couple grows closer through shared values and devotion. 3. Third Lavan – Detachment from Ego Here, the couple learns to let go of ego and worldly distractions, finding peace and balance through humility and faith. 4. Fourth Lavan – Spiritual Union The final step represents complete harmony—two souls united as one, living in spiritual bliss and lifelong companionship.
You can expect a peaceful, meaningful ceremony centered around prayers, hymns, and blessings. Guests will be seated on the floor or in benches while the couple walks around the Guru Granth Sahib during the ceremony. Everyone is welcome, regardless of faith.
Absolutely. All are welcome. Your presence and respect mean the world to us.
Please dress modestly and comfortably. Covered shoulders and legs are encouraged Dresses, suits, or traditional attire are all welcome Avoid overly revealing outfits Head coverings are required for everyone inside the Gurdwara (ceremony hall) as a sign of respect. Head coverings will be provided, but you are welcome to bring your own scarf or shawl.
Yes. Shoes must be removed before entering the prayer hall. Shoe storage will be available.
Out of respect, we kindly ask that guests: Do not consume alcohol on the premises Do not point your feet toward the Guru Granth Sahib while seated Keep phones on silent during the ceremony
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