We met at a party in September 2016 while we were both attending Drury University in Springfield, Missouri. We started dating in March 2018 while Matt finished his degree at Drury and Victoria was studying at Loughborough University in the UK. Our long-distance relationship continued as Matt accepted a coaching position in Los Angeles and Victoria started working in Kansas City. In 2019, we moved to Chicago and thought our long distance days were finally behind us, when Matt's visa application was rejected. He returned to the UK at the end of 2019 and Victoria made her first visit to Essex to meet many of Matt's friends and family during the holidays before starting her new job in Chicago in January 2020. In March, Matt and several friends traveled back to Chicago for a quick trip to celebrate St. Patrick's Day when COVID-19 restrictions began. Matt was slated to start a new position in London the following week, so decided to return home. Due to travel restrictions, we spent much of the year not knowing when we would be able to see each other again. In December, Victoria received permission from her job to work from the UK, so we spent the next six months together at Matt's mum's home in Essex. In July 2021, Matt returned to the US to begin his Masters studies and to work as a coach for the women's soccer team at the University of Louisiana at Monroe. Victoria spent much of her time in Louisiana working remotely, but moved full-time to Monroe in June 2022. Matt graduated with a Masters degree in Sports Management in December 2022. Matt proposed in July 2024 while taking photos before dinner with friends at our favorite restaurant in Monroe. Now that our long-distance days are officially behind us, we love to spend our time traveling, hosting friends in our home, and playing with Bailee, our golden retriever.
5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Beach/Cocktail Attire: Wear linen pants, smart shorts, short-sleeved button downs, maxi dresses, and sandals.
There will be a few light bites in addition to cocktails. Can't wait to see you!
4:30 pm
Tropical semi-formal / formal - think bright colors and patterns! No need for sand-appropriate footwear :) For additional inspiration, find our mood board at https://pin.it/mOBpYGh7d
There will be a cocktail hour and reception following the ceremony.
11:00 am
Hotel
This is where all wedding events will take place! We have carefully selected this venue to celebrate and spend time with our favorite people from around the world. We have worked with our travel agent to secure the best group rates, inclusive of all food, drinks, airport transport, and amenities to ensure the best value for your money. We encourage you to submit your refundable deposit of $100 per room prior to February 7, 2026 to ensure that you are able to reserve the room you want for our celebration!
Flight
Our venue is located a 15-minute drive away from Punta Cana International Airport.
Please pass it along with all details to cheerstothecaleys@tripguy.com - price matches will be honored for valid rates, and you can keep the benefits associated with booking through a travel agent!
While not a strict requirement to stay at this resort to be able to attend wedding events, we encourage our guests to take advantage of the discounted rates negotiated by our travel agent at Sanctuary Cap Cana to avoid being charged the wedding day pass fee of $195 for the ceremony and reception or the regular day pass fee to attend other wedding events.
While we love your babies as much as we love you, the venue permits guests aged 18+ only.
The main wedding events will be November 18-20, so we expect most of our friends and family will stay for a minimum of three nights. We will be staying November 15-22 and while there is absolutely no expectation for anyone to stay for that amount of time, we would love to have fun and relax with you before or after the big day! :)
We will provide RSVP details when we send out formal invitations in 2026.
Your invitation will specify who is included in your party!