Timing is everything. For better or for worse, the world works in mysterious ways. God, The Universe, whatever you want to call it, tends to make things line up exactly the way they are supposed to. Whether it's a chance encounter or a missed opportunity, it's pretty incredible to think about how timing has affected so many things in our lives. Brett, the forever bachelor, and Ellen, the lover of love, happened to meet one evening at Sarah Prather's house totally by chance. It was a last minute phone call to Ellen from her friend Coryn convincing Ellen to stop by Sarah's "for a minute." As the guests shifted around throughout the evening, Ellen and Brett ended up sitting next to one other, setting the wheels in motion. A conversation about "blue couch pillows making real estate photos 'pop' to catch a buyer's eye" somehow led to a longer conversation that continued for hours after the party. After a few weeks of playing hard to get, Brett finally made plans with Ellen. After a couple 1 on 1 dates (mostly to Brett's rooftop during Covid), Brett introduced Ellen to Chris & Sophie Newman during a Dodger's game at Riley's house. The boys promptly left for "just a minute" (about 90 minutes), to stop by a friend's house, leaving Sophie & Ellen to get to know each other. Ellen passed the test. Despite growing up less than 5 miles from each other and likely crossing paths many times over the years, the timing wasn't quite right for Ellen & Brett to meet. It took years of growing up, heart breaks, happiness, travels, and everything else life threw at them, for this love to start. The timing was...perfect. The couple could not be more excited to have all of their best friends and families together to celebrate their perfect timing! Wild Bill (Brett's dad) said it best the first time he met Ellen "Brett, you've really out kicked your coverage with this one."
9:45 am - 12:00 pm
Athletic Attire
A fun way for our guests to get to know each other - spectators welcome! Please note equipment will be provided and the Swim and Tennis club is about 1 mile from the hotel.
12:45 pm - 4:45 pm
We'll see you on the 9th green at 9... oh and wear something nice.
6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Cocktail Attire
All guests are invited to attend our welcome party taking place outside in the Santiago Courtyard. Food and drinks provided. Cocktail Attire is requested, kindly RSVP by October 31st.
Tue, Dec 31, 2024, 4:30 pm - Wed, Jan 1, 2025, 12:30 am
Attire - Black Tie
We are so excited to end 2024 with all of our best friends and family, and to start 2025 as the Beebe's! Put your party pants on, dress up, and get ready to dance in the New Year! The vibes will be high from start to finish.
Hotel
All wedding events will take place on the Rancho Bernardo Inn property. Please click the link below to reserve your room in the hotel room block. If you would like a suite or larger room, please call the hotel directly and mention the Vicelja/Beebe Wedding. Please note that the resort fee and parking fees will be waived when you book in the room block.
Flight
Rancho Bernardo Inn is: 30 Minutes from San Diego International Airport (SAN) 60 Minutes from John Wayne Airport (Orange County) 2 Hours from Los Angeles Airport (LAX)
Go on safari while in San Diego! One of the coolest zoo's in the world.
Very close to the hotel, awesome wine tasting and great food options.
US Open Golf Course and incredible nature walks and hikes.
Arguably the best tri trip sandwiches ever...
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We love your kids, but we kindly ask that you do not bring them to any of the wedding events.
Classic cocktail attire. The entire Rancho Bernardo Inn is Italy inspired and the welcome party venue feels like you're in the heart of Tuscany! The food and cocktails will match. We will be outdoors, heaters will be provided.
Black Tie. Men in black tuxedos or black suits. Women in long or tea length dresses.
All events are on the Rancho Bernardo Inn property so it's very walkable. For those needing assistance there will be shuttled golf carts available before the ceremony and after the reception.
Room block pricing is available 3 days prior and 3 days after the wedding. The block has limited availability so please book ASAP! If you need a larger or upgraded room, call the hotel and let them know you're in the Beebe/Vicelja wedding block. When you book in our block, the resort and parking fees are waived.
There is nothing formal planned for January 1st. We hope we are all exhausted from a great night, so the bride and groom will be lounging by the pool if weather permits, or watching New Years Day college football games in the sports bar at the hotel.