Victoria Ponzillo
JJ Barker
Victoria Ponzillo
JJ Barker
October 19, 2026
Our Story
What began as a simple match quickly became something deeper. From our very first conversations, we connected over faith and purpose. Even while living in different states — Victoria in California and JJ in Arizona — we built our relationship through communication, prayer, trust, and intentional love. The distance never weakened our connection; it strengthened it. Every visit felt peaceful, familiar, and certain — like coming home. Through long drives, airport goodbyes, phone calls, and shared prayers, we continued choosing each other every single day. Our engagement has felt like confirmation of God’s timing and His hand over our story. Now, as we prepare for marriage, we are simply grateful — for the journey, the growth, the love we’ve built, and the life ahead of us. What started with a message became forever.
Our Wedding Vibe
Schedule
Monday, October 19, 2026
Ponzillo & Barker Wedding
4:30 pm - 10:00 pm
1618 Ohms Way, Costa Mesa, CA 92627
Dressy Cocktail Attire: We invite elegant dresses and suits to help us celebrate in style.
We are so excited to celebrate with you! Following the ceremony, guests will enjoy a social hour with hors d'oeuvres and refreshments while the bride and groom take photos. Afterward, we will gather for dinner, dessert and an evening of music, dancing and making memories with family and friends.
Travel
Hotel
Hyatt Regency Newport Beach West
Hotel
Residence Inn by Marriott Costa Mesa Newport Beach
Hotel
Costa Mesa Marriott
Hotel
Courtyard by Marriott Santa Ana Orange County
Hotel
Hilton Orange County/Costa Mesa
Hotel
Hampton Inn & Suites Irvine-Orange County Airport
Hotel
Hilton Garden Inn
Things To Do
South Coast Plaza
Got the shoppies? South Coast Plaza is an iconic Southern California shopping destination, offering an exceptional mix of luxury boutiques, favorite retailers, and dining experiences.
Philz Coffee
UC Irvine Langson Orange County Museum of Art | Costa Mesa
MoonGoat Coffee
Sidecar Doughnuts & Coffee
Sidecar is known for its seasonal masterpieces, but you can never go wrong with the Maple Bacon Doughnut, the bride’s all-time favorite.
Chronic Tacos
Fashion Island
Originally opened in 1967, this premier coastal center blends upscale boutiques, renowned department stores like Neiman Marcus, Nordstrom, Bloomingdale’s and Macy’s with a curated mix of specialty shops and designer brands, many of which are exclusive to the region.
Zov's
Tanaka Farms
Arc Food & Libations
Newport Beach Balboa Pier
Table Rock Beach
Table Rock Beach is one of those hidden coastal gems tucked away along the cliffs of South Laguna Beach. Known for its dramatic rock formations, soft sand, and turquoise water, it feels a little more secluded and peaceful than the busier nearby beaches.
Burnt Crumbs Irvine
Burnt Crumbs is a modern sandwich shop in Orange County known for its creative comfort food and elevated takes on classic favorites. From stacked, flavor-packed sandwiches to loaded fries and house-made sauces, everything is designed to feel indulgent but still thoughtfully crafted.
FAQs
Question
Where do i park on the wedding day?
Answer
Complimentary valet parking will be provided for all guests at no cost. Valet parking is the only parking option available at the venue, and security personnel will be on site throughout the event.
Question
When should i get there?
Answer
Please plan to arrive 30 minutes early—this will give you time to valet park, sign our guest book, snap a pic, and get settled before we begin.
Question
What will the weather be like?
Answer
Our ceremony will be outside, and the reception will take place inside. October in Costa Mesa is usually warm and sunny during the day, but evenings can get a little cool—we recommend bringing a light jacket or shawl, so you stay cozy while celebrating with us.
Question
What are we eating?
Answer
A thoughtfully curated buffet will be served. Our celebration will be alcohol-free.
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Who's invited?
Answer
We have chosen to keep our wedding celebration intimate so we can be fully present with our loved ones. The number of seats reserved for you will be indicated on your RSVP. Thank you for understanding.
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Can we take photos?
Answer
We welcome photos throughout our celebration. A QR code will be provided so guests can easily upload and share their photos from the day with us.
Question
What time does the celebration end?
Answer
The reception is scheduled to conclude at 10:00pm.
Question
Will the ceremony and reception be held at the same location?
Answer
Yes. Both ceremony and reception be held at The Harper, so there will be no need to travel between venues.
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