Todd Toler
Stephanie Phelps
Todd Toler
Stephanie Phelps
October 4, 2025
It All Started with a Pinch...
It all started with a pinch. It seemed like an ordinary day. The kind of day that slips past without asking questions. But the pinch wasn’t accidental. It was deliberate, like the universe nudging— Pay attention. Interest grew into something more, and fate had its way to give our love a chance. Not loudly. Not all at once. But in slow, quiet waves that rewrote the rules of love. Love that didn’t need grand gestures, just shared glances and crooked smiles, moments suspended in silence— The kind you feel more than hear. When we took the steps to bring our lives together, It was not easy, But it was sooo worth it. Every challenge, every late-night talk, Every compromise is wrapped in care. We didn’t just build a life— We chose it, over and over again. And now, As we plan our wedding, We hope to seal our union and life together with a kiss— not just as a tradition, But as a promise: That no matter how ordinary the day, Our love will always be extraordinary.
Schedule
Wednesday, October 1, 2025
The Welcome & Wedding House Set-Up - Checking on Early Arrival
4:00 pm - 10:00 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Anyone who would like to join us is more than welcome! There are lights to be hung, tulle to be strung, and seating arrangements to be planned. We would love your help if you have the time! There will be a pizza party to celebrate the completion - we will arrange this once the decor is set and in place.
Thursday, October 2, 2025
Welcome Poolside/Beachside Gathering (Coffee and Breakfast Items are Served Starting at 9:00A)
9:00 am - 9:00 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Beachy Casual Event to begin the weekend wedding celebration
LUNCH Enjoy gourmet grilled cheese, comforting soups, and fresh salad prepared by Chef Scottie as we start setting the scene for the celebrations ahead. AFTERNOON Unwind, help with light décor, mingle with loved ones, or simply enjoy the coastal vibes—your pace, your way. DINNER Feast on Chef Scottie’s Tuscan Chicken and Garden Salad for a casual evening meal. DESSERT & NIGHTCAP As the sun sets, join us by the firepit for s’mores (perfect for the littles), while the adults indulge in cigars and a fabulous martini bar. We can’t wait to welcome you!
Welcome Event - Dinner
5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Tuscan Chicken by Chef Scottie
Friday, October 3, 2025
Poolside • Beachside • Pointside Activities
9:00 am - 10:00 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Beachy Casual – Swimwear encouraged during the day, comfy coastal wear for the evening.
Self Serve Breakfast will be ready at 9:00A - Join us for Coffee and Bagels on the deck, pool or beach. Lunch will be a selection of salads and sandwiches from Panera served at noon Whether you’re feeling playful or peaceful, we’ve got something for everyone: 🎯 Extreme Bocce (because normal bocce just isn’t enough) ⛳ Beach Golf – bring your best swing and sandy strategy 🐚 Shell Hunting – treasures await along the tide line 🚶♀️ Long Walks on the Beach – solo, hand-in-hand, or in packs of barefoot wanderers
Rehearsal - Dinner & Evening Events
4:00 pm - 11:00 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC
Casual and comfortable
Rehearsal is at 4:00P - led by our Master of Ceremonies - Kevin Kiernan All members of the wedding party—especially our littles—will practice their grand entrance! The final run through before the long-awaited I Do’s! 5:00 PM – SOUTHERN BARBECUE DINNER Join us for a laid-back Southern meal featuring comfort food favorites, cold drinks, and the soothing sounds of the waves in the background. We’ll gather with friends and family for a relaxed pre-wedding celebration filled with good food and even better company. Our dear friend Anna will be on the guitar later in the evening. EVENING As the sun sets, head to the firepit for storytelling, stargazing and musical entertainment with Anna on the guitar. The perfect way to wind down the day and savor the moments before “I Do.”
Saturday, October 4, 2025
Wedding Day Beach Walk Pre-Ceremony with or without Coffee
9:00 am - 11:00 am
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Wedding - Pictures (Bride and Wedding Party) Groom and Family and Friends
2:00 pm - 3:30 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
"We kindly request that our guests dress in shades of blue, tan, and ivory to complement our beachy chic celebration. Think coastal elegance—light, airy, and sophisticated!"
Pre-Ceremony Appetizers & Self Serve Cocktails before the Ceremony
3:30 pm - 4:00 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 27540
Ceremony
4:00 pm - 4:30 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
We kindly request that our guests dress in shades of blue, tan, and ivory to complement our beachy chic celebration. Think coastal elegance—light, airy, and sophisticated
The ocean air will be chilly once the sun sets at 6:47 PM. Bring a sweater or jacket so that you can enjoy the evening by the firepit or in the pool .. the choice is yours.
Reception Dinner
5:30 pm - 7:00 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Our reception dinner will be Prime Rib and all of the fixings. There is Chicken nuggets or cheeseburger options for the kids. More details will be sent with the formal invitation.
After Party
Sat, Oct 4, 2025, 7:00 pm - Sun, Oct 5, 2025, 12:00 am
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
More details to follow
Sunday, October 5, 2025
Sunday Brunch
9:00 am
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Poolside Party & Beach Walk
Mimosa Toast starts our post wedding celebration
Self Serve Bloody Mary & Cocktail Bar
10:00 am - 2:00 pm
11207 Inlet Dr, Emerald Isle, NC 28594
Travel & Accommodations
House Or Rental
11207 Inlet Dr
We rented The Pearl of the Point an oceanfront 10 bdrm w/Pool/Elevator with the best Views on the Island! This property offers sweeping views of the Atlantic Ocean, Bogue Sound and the Channel and a walk-out path to the ocean. It is the perfect place for a beachfront wedding and we can't wait for you all to join us!
Flight
All Available Airports
Airports & Distance to 11207 Inlet Dr Emerald Isle: - ILM – Wilmington Int’l – 1.5 hr drive - EWN – Coastal Carilina Regional – 45 min drive - RDU – Raleigh Durham Int’l – 2.5 hr drive
Hotel
Islander Hotel & Resort
For those preferring their own space – the Islander Hotel is 3 miles away - islandernc.com – we’ll book a block of rooms once we get a total headcount.
Travel Note
What is near by:
The Crystal Coast Area: Crowning the island of Bogue Banks, The Point of EI is home to one of the most pristine beaches on the east coast and an estuary of national significance. Bogue Banks, the southernmost outer banks barrier island along the Atlantic Ocean is referred to as the "Crystal Coast" for it's glistening waters, rare maritime forests and bountiful inlets of waterfowl and turtle sanctuaries. The natural beauty of the island is unparalleled making it a top destination for ecotourism, fishing and water sports. The island sits in close proximity to numerous landmark areas such as Shackleford Banks, Cape Look Out, historic Beaufort, Morehead City and Swansboro waterfronts. Experience island hopping, surfing, bicycling-walking trails, paddle boarding, boat tours, kayaking, fishing, snorkeling, scuba diving, horseback riding, fine dining, shopping, the world class NC aquarium and more.
Our Wedding Wish Registry
Wedding Party
TENLEY KELLEY
Maiden of Honor
TANNER KELLEY
Ring Bearer
KALYN ROMANO
Flower Girl
JACKSON PHELPS
Usher
NOELLE WARTENBERG
Flower Girl
Gallery
Things To Do
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