Sometimes the most beautiful love stories begin when you're not looking for love at all. Our story started with two friends playing matchmaker. At the time, Stacey was working in New Orleans, and Gary was visiting his good friend Jeff in Atlanta. During a conversation, Jeff asked his girlfriend, Natasha, a simple question: "Do you have any friends for my boy to meet?" As fate would have it, Natasha, who was also working in New Orleans immediately thought of Stacey. Pictures were exchanged, contact information was shared, and what seemed like a simple introduction soon became the beginning of something extraordinary. A few days later, Gary picked up the phone and called Stacey. Introducing himself as Jeff and Natasha's friend, he had no idea that one conversation would change both of their lives forever. For the next three months, we talked and talked and talked some more. Our conversations were effortless, meaningful, and filled with laughter, honesty, and curiosity. We learned about each other's dreams, families, values, faith, and life experiences. Every day brought us closer together. Then one day, a funny realization hit us both... "We've never actually seen each other." So we agreed to FaceTime and we still do to this day. Eventually, Gary booked a flight to Atlanta, rented a cozy little tiny house, and we finally met in person. Our first date was shared with the very couple who introduced us—Jeff and Natasha. We enjoyed sushi, great conversation, and later invited them over for dinner, creating memories we'll cherish forever. From that very first weekend, there was something undeniable between us. A chemistry, comfort and peace. It felt as though God had carefully written our story long before we ever met. As our relationship grew, so did our friendship. We spent countless hours learning one another's hearts, understanding each other's values, strengthening our faith, and building a foundation rooted in love, trust, respect, and God's guidance. Today, we stand hand in hand, grateful for the journey that brought us here and excited for the journey still ahead. We know that our greatest adventures are yet to come. As we prepare to unite our lives, we look forward to building an everlasting partnership, creating new memories, growing deeper in faith, and embracing all that God has planned for us. This is not the end of our story. It is only the beginning of forever. With all our love, Stacey & Gary
5:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Beach Cocktail Attire
A welcome reception will be held Friday evening before ceremony. Details to come!
Travel Note
Maid of Honor
I remember it like it was yesterday. I was in the 2nd grade. I was waiting for my mom to pick me up from school but my mom's friend picked me up and said, "Your mother is at the hospital. We're going to go meet your baby sister." From that moment on I took on the position of big sister. I pray I've been doing a good job. We've grown to be each other's best friend but there are no words for the sister bound we have. I thank the Lord for the man she has found in Gary. I feel at peace knowing she has found a good man in him. I have enjoyed watching them grow to where they are currently and overjoyed in looking forward to seeing their relationship grow for years to come. "Not everything that is faced can be changed; but nothing can be changed until it's faced." - James Baldwin
Matron of Honor
I'm someone who loves good food, beautiful experiences, laughter, and creating memorable moments with the people I love most. Whether I’m planning a trip, trying a new recipe, or organizing my closet for the 10th time, I’m happiest when life feels joyful, meaningful, and shared with family and friends. I can’t wait to celebrate this next chapter surrounded by all of you. Here’s to Stacey & Gary — proof that true love is finding someone who still makes you laugh even when they’re stealing the blankets, taking too long to get ready, and asking ‘what do you want to eat?’ every single day. May your marriage be filled with endless laughter, deep love, happy chaos, and the kind of partnership that makes everyone around you believe in soulmates again.
Bridesmaid
Amber is Stacey’s best friend, ride-or-die, partner in crime, and unofficial keeper of all the secrets that should probably stay buried. Through countless laughs, adventures, and “remember when...” moments, she’s been right by Stacey’s side for it all. If there’s fun to be had, trouble to get into, or a last-minute plan to make, you can bet Amber is involved. As the saying goes, “Love is friendship set on fire.” Amber has had a front-row seat to Stacey’s story and couldn’t be happier to celebrate this next chapter as Gary’s wife. She’s honored to stand beside her best friend today and promises to keep cheering her on—while continuing to safeguard those secrets, of course.
Bridesmaid
I met Stacey 26 years ago on my first training flight as a Delta flight attendant. She was about five months in and had just moved to NYC. When I found out I’d be based there too, we clicked immediately. Two Southern girls—me from Florida, her from Atlanta—excited, nervous, trying to figure out NYC together. We exchanged numbers and baby, the rest is history. Back in the early 2000s, we were outside! We ran all over NYC, traveled the world, took trips, hit lounges and parties, and made memories that still have us laughing. Through the years, Stacey has remained one of my closest friends. We’ve been there through everything—good times, hard times, relationships, breakups, career moves, family moments. No matter what, we always find our way back. One of my favorite memories is meeting Gary when he and Stacey came to NYC for her birthday. The moment I met him, I knew something was different. I remember thinking, “Well alright now…this one might stick.” But more importantly, I saw a peace and happiness in Stacey I hadn’t seen before. That’s when I knew she’d found her person. These days Stacey is back home in Atlanta, and I’m still in Brooklyn. The miles don’t matter—our friendship hasn’t skipped a beat. That’s my sister-friend, and I’m honored to stand beside her as she marries the love of her life. My wish for Stacey and Gary is a lifetime filled with love, laughter, good music and memories. Keep choosing each other, keep the joy alive, and let love lead the way.
Best Man
As the youngest of the three brothers, I’ve always looked up to my big bro. Seeing him truly happy means everything to me. Even though I haven’t had the chance to really get to know his future wife yet, I already know she must be special because of the smile she brings to him and the peace he carries now. Watching my brother step into this next chapter with love, confidence, and happiness is a blessing. Wishing you both endless love, laughter, strength, and unforgettable memories. This is beautiful energy, and I’m proud to witness it.
Groomsman
I am Gary's longest friend since college. We met the day our families dropped us off at the dorm, Culinary West and we've been tight ever since. We've experienced births, deaths, marriages, divorces, and 2nd (and last) marriages... through it all our friendship NEVER faltered. I could not ask for a better Brother. As difficult as it may be, I am prepared for Stacey to replace me as Gary's best friend. I've watched this relationship blossom into a grand bouquet. They both enjoy the "soft-life" when they're together. Effort and enthusiasm are at the forefront how they interact. I wish them great communication, genuine affection, meaningful forgiveness, cooperative teamwork, and nonstop fun for the rest of their lives together! I love you both!
Groomsman
Gary is my brother and has been there for some of the most important moments of my life. Through every season, he has been a steady source of friendship, loyalty, and laughter, and I am grateful for the bond we share. When Natasha and I connected Gary and Stacey, we had no idea what God had in store. We simply brought together two wonderful people. Watching their relationship grow into a friendship and now a marriage has been a true joy. Seeing the happiness you've found in one another has been a blessing to witness. May you continue to grow together, support one another, and build a marriage filled with love, laughter, and meaningful moments.
Groomsman
For more than 20 years, Gary James has been more than a friend—he has been a brother We've grown together through life's highs and lows, building a bond rooted in trust, loyalty, and respect. It is truly an honor to celebrate this special day with him and Stacey and welcome this next chapter of his journey.
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