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Shirley Yu

&

Mark Kim

Shirley Yu

&

Mark Kim

September 27, 2025

Franklin Square, NY

Our Love Origin Story

On Halloween night, when ghosts whisper and monsters roam free, the line “trick or treat” brings terror into the night—but in the Fall of 2014, it was only a treat for Mark and Shirley. As Mark was visiting his best friend, Joe, and his friends in Binghamton University as per tradition in his undergraduate years, nobody knew that was the origin of his love story with Shirley. Mark, dressed as Chuckie from Rugrats, was shy as usual at a party until he saw Shirley, dressed as Lion King (or Queen). He had to introduce himself to her! Again…and again…and again…persistently approaching her. Shirley thought this was so odd that she found it hilarious (and hopefully cute) because she warmly accepted each new introduction just like Henry and Lucy from 50 First Dates. As the party died down and disguises were removed, Mark made sure to add Shirley on Facebook before falling asleep. Of course Mark was a lovey dovey gushy guy who told corny jokes because Shirley liked them. She indeed also felt a mutual attraction. But to his surprise..she rejected him three times!! Poor Mark was heartbroken, but persistence truly is key as he still wanted to be with Shirley when she finally approached him later. She really admired how he wanted to step back and work on himself despite trying so hard to be with her and getting rejected. His mature mentality and persistence was what won her over, as well as his cute looks. Forced to be apart as they both had duties as college students, they were able to create a bond that transcended distance. They developed an unbreakable emotional and spiritual bond that some may term as soulmates. Little did they know that this relationship at the end of college would go on from a couple months, to years, and now almost a decade full of adventures, laughter, growth, and love!

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Schedule

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Saturday, September 27, 2025

Ceremony

6:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Black-Tie optional: Wear long gowns or formal cocktail dresses, tuxes or suits with neckties or bowties.

Kindly refrain from wearing any white or cream dresses and suits, thank you!

Cocktail Hour

7:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Reception

8:00 pm - 11:59 pm

RSVP

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Please RSVP by July 4th!

Please enter the first and last name of one member of your party below.
If you're responding for you and a guest (or your family), you'll be able to RSVP for your entire group on the next page.

Ex. Sarah Fortune (not The Fortune Family or Dr. & Mr. Fortune)

Travel

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We are conveniently located just past the Queens border into Long Island! Ideal mode of transportation is via car!

Wedding Party

Meet Shirley's Angels and The Boys

Karen Lin

Maid of Honor

Shirley Don

Bridesmaid

Ilene Chin

Bridesmaid

Lena Yang

Bridesmaid

Susie Hong

Bridesmaid

Tiffany Choi

Bridesmaid

Joanne Kong

Bridesmaid

Joseph Bang

Best Man

John Choi

Groomsman

Michael Shin

Groomsman

Kevin Lee

Groomsman

Danny Kim

Groomsman

Andrew Kim

Groomsman

Chris Do

Groomsman

FAQs

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Question

When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Prior to July 4th, thank you!

Question

What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

Answer

PLEASE arrive by or before 6PM!

Question

Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes, black-tie optional :) (Again, please refrain from wearing any white or cream dresses and suits, thank you!)

Question

Can I bring a date?

Answer

You are more than welcome to if your RSVP includes a plus one!

Question

Are kids welcome?

Answer

Though we love the little ones, unfortunately this party will require the kiddos to stay at home

Question

Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

Answer

Yes, there is valet available at the venue as well as residential parking

Registry

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We would greatly appreciate any contributions to our honeymoon fund!