1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
2:45 pm - 5:00 pm
Elevated Casual Attire
The ceremony will start promptly at 3:00 PM.
6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
There will be a few light bites in addition to beers and wines. Can't wait to see you!
9:00 am - 1:00 pm
We invite you over "open house" style before departing on Sunday! Drop in and out at your convenience. We'll have coffee and donuts for a lazy Sunday get together.
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Hotel
* $132/night + tax * $29 self-park or $39 valet park/night * restaurant on-site * 7-minute drive from venue * Located in the heart of downtown St. Louis, this historic hotel has been preserved to maintain its beauty and features modern American dining and city views. Near the Arch and Busch Stadium.
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Hotel
* $209/night for Deluxe Kings * $215/night for Deluxe Double Queens * $10 parking/night * breakfast included * 10-minute drive from venue * Rightly popular quaint hotel with a British-themed aesthetic - one of our favorites. Walking distance to Forest Park, the Zoo, and Demun (a little area with food and shops).
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Hotel
* 4-minute drive to venue * A St. Louis icon since 1894, today the Union Station hotel retains the elegant archways and décor of its famous Grand Hall. The hotel is attached to St. Louis Aquarium and The St. Louis Wheel. Within blocks of City Museum and less than a mile from the heart of Downtown.
Hotel
* 15-minute drive to venue * street parking * AARP and AAA discounts * Moonrise is a chic hotel located in the Delmar Loop, which has lots of restaurants and shopping in a walkable area. We especially like their rooftop bar!
Saturdays 8am – 12:30pm. Great stop before the wedding :)
Our neighborhood bar! Good beer and wings.
Has a wonderful, dog- and kid-friendly patio.
Live Irish music. Fish and chips. What more could you want.
This was our first date :)
Cash-only dive.
Great for kids. There is a board game "bar" in the same space.
Come for the coffee, stay for the empanadas.
Ever had deep dish in St. Louis? Expect a well-worth-it wait.
A St. Louis classic for subs.
Trust us.
Oh so spicy. Oh so yummy.
We suggest making a reservation here for brunch!
Our favorite tacos!
A divey hole-in-the-wall with fantastic sandwiches.
Great vibes, great food.
Authentic Vietnamese!
Brittany worked here in high school, and it is still the best ice cream in STL. (This is an unbiased opinion).
Our local ice cream shop. Support a Black-owned small business!
Frozen custard. A must-have for all St. Louis visitors.
Let the kids blow off some energy and run around this unique place.
Another STL must. Museum is free, but it's worth the $10 to summit the Arch.
Multiple museums and the zoo are within Forest Park. One stop fun.
Also FREE. Has a very neat 1904 World's Fair exhibit. Kid-friendly.
Visit our FREE art museum!
We love the zoo. See the red pandas and monkey around with the apes.
Popular walkable neighborhood with food and shops.
Historic walkable neighborhood of antique shops and art galleries.
Walkable neighborhood with local shops and good food.
Think sundresses and sandals, smart shirts and slacks. Wear what makes you comfortable and confident.
It's a picnic! We'll have barbecue and sides, soft drinks, and desserts. If you have any food restrictions, please don't hesitate to reach out and let us know!
Yes! We love our city and would not recommend somewhere we wouldn't stay ourselves. The most common crimes in the region are crimes of opportunity, so best practice is to not leave valuables visible in your car, and don't wander around in areas you don't know late at night. While downtown is a common area for visitors to stay due to the arch, our favorite parts of the city are the walkable neighborhoods to the west and south of downtown. Visit the Travel page for a few hotel options, and check out the Things to Do page for a map of some our favorite areas.
Our wedding will be at the Kern Pavilion in Lafayette Park. The venue is a short, paved walk (~500 feet) from the edge of the park where parking is available. Please let us know if you'll need mobility support. The venue is indoors with an outdoor patio, lawn space, and a playground nearby. We will hold our short ceremony outside, weather permitting, and there will be space outside for guests to socialize and play games. Otherwise, we will eat inside. There are two restrooms on-site.
The wedding ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00 PM.
We will miss you! If you can't make it, please let us know - especially so that we can find a way to visit you in the near future.
Your invitation should indicate whether or not you have a plus one, but feel free to ask if you aren't sure. Space and seating at the venue is very limited, so we cannot accommodate unplanned for guests.