Patrick Murphy
Samantha Then-Murphy
Patrick Murphy
Samantha Then-Murphy
September 12, 2026
How We Met
In the fall of 2015, Patrick and Sam attended Daemen College as freshmen. Unbeknownst to them at the time, they shared two classes together; though it took weeks before they actually met. One day, Sam was running late to class and arrived to find that no one had saved her a seat. She settled into the second row, while Patrick sat near the classroom exit. During class, the professor asked each student to draw a number from a hat to determine their group for an upcoming project. At the end of the lecture, we were encouraged to find our group members and exchange contact information. As the class was dismissed, Sam walked toward Patrick, both of them focused on the classroom door; only to realize their group members had already left. Sharing a laugh at the awkward moment, Patrick and Sam exchanged numbers to coordinate their project. Soon after, they discovered they were also in the same art history class. Study sessions turned into a friendship, and that friendship eventually grew into a love story; one that led them to spend forever with one another.
Schedule
Saturday, September 12, 2026
Cocktail Hour
3:00 pm - 4:15 pm
2595 Benson Rd, Skaneateles, NY 13152
Cocktail/Formal
We invite our guests to join the celebration by wearing colorful attire that reflects joy, love, and festive spirit.
Reception
4:15 pm - 9:30 pm
2595 Benson Rd, Skaneateles, NY 13152
Cocktail/Formal
We invite our guests to join the celebration by wearing colorful attire that reflects joy, love, and festive spirit.
Travel
Hotel
Embassy Suites by Hilton Syracuse Destiny USA
Dogs and cats allowed
Hotel
Tru by Hilton Syracuse-Camillus
Dogs and cats allowed
Hotel
Homewood Suites by Hilton Syracuse/Liverpool
Dogs and cats allowed
Registry
Gallery
Things To Do
1911 Established Distillery
1911 Established, a craft beverage brand based in LaFayette, New York. The company is part of the long-running Beak & Skiff Apple Orchards family business and specializes in producing hard cider, spirits, and apple-based wines made from apples grown right in their orchard.
Recess Coffee Westcott
Recess Coffee is a well-loved local coffee roastery and café in Syracuse, New York. They’ve been roasting ethically sourced, fair-trade coffee beans since 2007 and operate several community-focused café locations where you can enjoy artisan coffee drinks, pastries, and more.
Brooklyn Pickle North
Brooklyn Pickle is a long-standing sandwich shop known for huge, New York City–style overstuffed sandwiches, giant subs, and award-winning homemade soups. Founded in 1975 in Syracuse, New York, it’s become a local lunchtime favorite with a fun, fast-paced atmosphere and a loyal following. The name comes from the founder’s family tradition of pairing great sandwiches with classic Brooklyn pickles — a signature garnish that helped make the shop memorable.
Rosamond Gifford Zoo
Rosamond Gifford Zoo at Burnet Park in Syracuse, New York, a long-established, accredited zoological park focused on wildlife conservation, education, and guest experiences. The zoo is home to hundreds of animals across dozens of species — from Asian elephants and Humboldt penguins to big cats, primates, birds, and more — and offers visitors indoor and outdoor exhibits, educational programs, events, and ways to support animal welfare and conservation.
Marcellus Lanes (Ice Cream)
Enjoying ice cream from Marcellus Lanes (Ice Cream) is all about a classic Central New York sweet-treat experience! This beloved local spot, attached to the Marcellus bowling alley, is famous for its huge soft-serve portions, variety of flavors, and fun, family-friendly vibe — the “kiddie” cone alone is often as big as a regular scoop at other shops.
Everson Museum of Art
Everson Museum of Art, a major art museum in Syracuse, New York dedicated to modern and contemporary American art. It highlights the museum’s collections, exhibitions, events, and visitor info, and serves as a hub for learning about its art programs, community engagement, and architectural significance.
Stella's Diner
A beloved classic American diner in Syracuse, New York, known for its hearty breakfast all day, comfort food classics, and welcoming, nostalgic diner atmosphere.
Beaver Lake Nature Center
A large, year-round outdoor nature center and park in Baldwinsville, New York, dedicated to helping visitors explore and appreciate the natural world. The site highlights the center’s multi-mile network of hiking trails through forests, wetlands, and around a glacial lake, as well as wildlife watching, educational programs, seasonal activities like canoeing and snowshoeing, and special events.
Anyela's Vineyards
A family-owned vineyard and winery perched above Skaneateles Lake in New York’s Finger Lakes region. The website highlights their estate-crafted wines and spirits, invites you to explore tasting experiences, and offers background on their three-generation winemaking tradition and scenic property.
Destiny USA
Destiny USA, a huge shopping, dining, and entertainment destination in Syracuse, New York. It’s home to over 250 retail stores, outlet brands, restaurants, and fun attractions like go-kart racing, IMAX movies, rope courses, and more — all under one roof and open year-round.
FAQs
Question
Will there be a ceremony the day of the event?
Answer
No, Patrick and I decided to elope in October 2025. It was our ten-year anniversary, and we wanted to do something big and meaningful. While we’ve always wanted to elope, we also wanted to make it special! So we had a few close friends and family members present to share the moment with us and welcome a new chapter in our lives. Additionally, we wanted to celebrate the new chapter of our lives in our own terms, elope then party!
Question
Who is invited?
Answer
Due to the number of immediate family members and close friends we have, we ask that only those listed on the invitation attend our Celebration. Please use our unity as a night to celebrate and enjoy yourselves. Thank you for understanding!
Question
What is the dress code?
Answer
We invite you to dress your best in semi-formal or cocktail attire. We invite our guests to join the celebration by wearing colorful attire that reflects joy, love, and festive spirit. The cocktail hour, and reception will be outdoors under a tent. The temperature in Syracuse during this time of year ranges from 67-77 degrees Fahrenheit.
Question
What is the parking situation?
Answer
On-site parking for up to 30 cars, the estate encourages you to carpool if needed. A parking attendant for the first hour of our event. You are welcome to leave cars at our reception venue overnight and retrieve them the next morning. Uber and Lyft are also available in the area
Question
Can I take pictures?
Answer
Absolutely! There will be professional photographers and a videographer there to capture all the special moments!
Question
Can I bring my dog to your cocktail hour/reception?
Answer
Unfortunately, no. While we truly enjoy seeing our friends and family, we kindly ask that you not bring any extended members to our event. We’ve listed some pet-friendly hotels in the area should you choose to bring your pets into town.