Ricky Totherow Jr
Jennifer Harper
Ricky Totherow Jr
Jennifer Harper
November 14, 2026
Schedule
Saturday, November 14, 2026
Ceremony
4:40 pm - 5:10 pm
801 Ocean Dr, Oak island, NC 28465
Dressy Beach Attire- Dressy, comfortable, and coastal. Layers and sand-friendly shoes encouraged. Our ceremony will take place on the sand. Heels may sink in the sand.
Parking will be tight. You can park in the pier parking lot beside our Venue (801 ocean) or walking distance away from the venue is 2 parking lots across the street from Lazy turtle oceanfront grille.
Cocktail Hour
5:15 pm - 6:00 pm
801 ocean dr, Oak Island, NC 28465
Dressy Beach Attire- Dressy, comfortable, and coastal.
(Inside) Enjoy some treats and drinks while we take pictures.
Reception
6:00 pm - 10:00 pm
801 ocean dr, Oak Island, NC 28465
Dressy Beach Attire- Dressy, comfortable, and coastal.
Travel
Hotel
Hampton Inn & Suites Southport
8 minutes drive away from the venue
Hotel
Fairfield Inn & Suites Southport
10 minute drive away from the venue
Hotel
The Beach House Motel & Suites - Oak Island, NC
This one is walking distance from the venue and is on the island.
Registry
Wedding Party
Que Stewart
Officiant
Kelly Totherow
Matron of Honor
Beth Boatwright
Bridesmaid
Kristy Stewart
Bridesmaid
Robbie Totherow
Best Man
Justin Boatwright
Groomsman
David Parlier
Groomsman
Kinsley
Flower Girl
Conway
Ring Bearer
Ricky totherow jr
Groom
Jennifer Harper
Bride
Gallery
Things To Do
North Carolina Aquarium at Fort Fisher
North Carolina Aquarium - Fort Fisher (short drive and ferry ride away) — Popular aquarium with marine wildlife displays and daily programs.
Oak Island Lighthouse
Reservations may be required
Lil & John's Sweetreat Ice Cream Parlor
Great ice cream
Oak Island Pier
FAQs
Question
Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
Answer
There will be limited parking available at the pier beside our venue 801 Ocean, or walking distance away is 2 parking lot across from Lazy turtle oceanfront grille. We encourage you to carpool if possible
Question
Is the ceremony outside?
Answer
Yes, we will say I do on the beach in the sand but the reception will take place inside our venue 801 ocean. We encourage layers for the outside ceremony.
Question
Are kids welcome?
Answer
Yes, children are welcome to attend our wedding celebration!
Question
Can I bring a plus one?
Answer
Yes, you are welcome to bring a plus one! Please indicate their attendance when you RSVP.
Question
What happens if it rains?
Answer
Our ceremony will move inside the venue
Question
Will food be served?
Answer
Yes, we will have a buffet style dinner.
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