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We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Nicolette Reff

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Johnathan Spence

Nicolette Reff

and

Johnathan Spence

August 24, 2025

Virginia Beach, VA

How we met

August 23rd 2019

We met by chance—though looking back, it felt more like something had quietly been arranging the pieces for a while. One afternoon, Nicolette was on her way home when she felt a strong pull to turn at a light and stop by a coffee shop she hadn’t visited in years. She ordered a drink, sat outside with her journal, and started writing. At some point, she sensed someone behind her and glanced up to see a man she didn’t recognize walking into the shop. She didn’t think much of it. That man was Johnathan, who had just left the bank and, on a whim, decided to stop at the same coffee shop—also for the first time in years. Something about Nicolette caught his attention. It wasn’t her looks, he says, but something else—an energy, a feeling. Even though he never does things like this, he walked up to her and asked, “Would you like someone to talk to, or are you okay by yourself?” She looked up, smiled, and said, “Sure—I don’t give a shit!” And that was it. They talked for three hours straight, about everything and nothing. Time disappeared. There was something familiar in it all, like they’d known each other in some other life. They exchanged numbers. A week later, they went on their first date. And from there, everything unfolded. Naturally. Honestly. With plenty of laughter, lots of coffee, and a shared love for conversation, curiosity, and the life they’ve since built together.

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Schedule

Sunday, August 24, 2025

Reception

4:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Sun Dress

There will be a few light bites in addition to cocktails!

Registry

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