We'll be meeting at Mary Laveroni Community Park at 7:00 AM and aiming to leave by 7:30.
Maxwell H. Kincaid
Moriah R. Swadowski-Larsen
Maxwell H. Kincaid
Moriah R. Swadowski-Larsen
September 14, 2024
The Proposal
In late spring of 2022, we found ourselves adjusting our summer plans to climb Mt. Rainier. After Moriah's surgery, we decided to swap the mountaineering adventure for a rock climbing trip in Yosemite. Maxwell's choice was Tenaya Peak in Tuolumne Meadows, one of his all-time favorites. It proved to be quite the intense climb for Moriah, but the breathtaking views made it all worthwhile. Wildflowers were in full bloom, and Maxwell playfully arranged all the climbing gear Moriah had to collect amidst the blossoms for her delight. Finally reaching the summit, Moriah turned to savor the awe-inspiring vistas. When she turned back to Maxwell, he was down on one knee, presenting her with a rope knot ring. He grinned and said, "I couldn't find you a florist who could provide enough flowers, so I got you a mountain of wildflowers instead! And I hope that in a year from now, you might consider marrying me on the beach down there?" Moriah's initial response was, "You dragged me up here to ask me that?" But then, with a joyful heart, she said yes!
We Will Be The Roses
We will be changing our last name to “Rose,” with the added significance that “Rose” is also Moriah’s middle name. This decision is rooted in our desire to embrace a more progressive approach to family identity, one that aligns with our values of simplicity and inclusivity. The choice of “Rose” as our new surname holds a special significance for us. Its simplicity carries an understated elegance, and the way it sounds evokes a sense of timeless beauty. With this change, we aim to shed any complexities and opt for a name that not only symbolizes the beauty in simplicity but also resonates with the poetry of a harmonious family bond. It’s a decision we are excited about, and we believe it’s a change that reflects the evolving dynamics of our family in a playful yet meaningful way.
Schedule
Saturday, September 14, 2024
Tenaya Lake Ceremony
9:00 am - 11:00 am
We kindly request that our guests embrace a semi-formal, all-white or mostly white dress code for the occasion.
We'll be meeting at Mary Laveroni Community Park at 7:00 AM and aiming to leave by 7:30. Address: 18990 CA-120 Groveland, CA 95321 We're organizing a carpool to help everyone get there. While carpooling is optional, it would be really helpful if you're able to join in. Even if you don’t want to carpool, please stop by to pick up a copy of the wedding permit. You’ll need it to enter the park unless you already have a reservation or are staying inside the park. At 10:00 am we will have a joyous hand fasting ceremony and exchange vows that we will lovingly prepare. A delightful small bohemian brunch will be served. Tenaya Lake can be accessed by car via Tioga Pass Road, on California State Route 120 outside the park. We will be celebrating on the beach near the Murphy Creek Trailhead. The east end of Tenaya Lake which has accessible parking spaces, an accessible vault toilet, and an accessible path that will lead to open views of Tenaya Lake. 37°49'58.0"N 119°27'46.3"W
Groveland CA Reception
4:30 pm - 10:00 pm
18736 Main Street, Groveland, CA 95321
semi-formal, all-white (or mostly white)
At our upcoming wedding, we will be offering a delightful grazing board and charcuterie buffet within the serene ambiance of the Hotel Charolette's beer garden. This sumptuous charcuterie board will feature an assortment of cured meats, artisanal cheeses, and an array of delectable sweet and savory morsels. Complementing these delights, you'll find an abundance of fresh vegetables, fruits, preserves, and more. For the main dining experience, we've chosen a unique a less traditional approach. The Hotel's restaurant, Charlotte’s’ Tavern, will be available for dinner service. There you can select from their menu and settle your tab independently. Additionally, we've collaborated with the restaurant and bar to create his and hers cocktails at a discounted price along with their bar menu. Simply inform them that you're part of the M&M wedding group to enjoy these special offerings. Your presence at this occasion will be a cherished part of our celebration.
FAQs
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Why the distance between the ceremony and the reception?
Answer
Maxwell's proposal selected the ceremony location (please refer to the details above). We would like to be married under the peaks we climbed that day. We also looked for options that will be more accommodating in the event of inclement weather, varying abilities, and enhanced comfort.
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How far is that drive?
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The estimated drive time to Tenaya Lake from The Hotel Charlotte is approximately 1.5 hours one way. It’s a scenic and beautiful drive that you’re sure to enjoy!
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Do you expect guests to attend both?
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We want you all to have fun with us, and we understand that will be a long commute. We will make an effort to coordinate a carpool from the Hotel Charlotte, but if you prefer to only attend the reception or the ceremony please indicate that on your RSVP."
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Where will the ceremony take place?
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The ceremony will be quite informal in its setting, and it will take place on the beach at Tenaya Lake near the Murphy Creek Trailhead. For those who will be joining us and haven't visited this location before, rest assured that there won't be any hiking required. It will be a short walk from the parking lot to the beach. We will provide floor pillows and picnic blankets for everyone's comfort. If any of you anticipate difficulty standing for extended periods or sitting on the ground, we kindly encourage you to bring a camping chair, or you may request one in advance, and we will gladly provide it. However the park limits these to those that require them for age or ability. The event will be handicap accessible, and we recommend bringing walking sticks if you find them helpful.
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What is the dress code?
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We are asking our guests to join us in white! Please attend in all white/mostly white (accent colors optional) semi-formal attire.
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Okay I get the all white or mostly white but what does semi-formal attire mean?
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Here are some examples! A classic option for semi-formal occasions, typically includes a well-fitted suit, a crisp dress shirt, and a conservative tie. Pair this with polished dress shoes to complete the look. For a more relaxed yet still semi-formal look, consider a blazer, light gray or khaki dress slacks, a dress shirt, and loafers. A popular choice for semi-formal events is a white dress or mostly white print, complemented by modest heels or dressy flats. Accessorize with a statement necklace and a clutch for a polished appearance. Opt for a tailored pantsuit in a rich fabric, paired with a stylish blouse. To add a touch of elegance, choose closed-toe heels and elegant jewelry to complete the semi-formal look.
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What food and drink will be served?
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The wedding ceremony will feature a bohemian petit brunch picnic. The menu will likely include macaroons, croissants, fruits, and pastries, all paired with dry bubbly wine, juices, and water. These will be provided at the picnic area on the beach after the ceremony. The wedding reception will have a grazing board/charcuterie buffet provided by the mother of the groom Joy. The bar will offer discounted cocktails for our guests, and you can open your own tab if you wish. If guests would like to order full meals, please be aware that the hotel has a restaurant where you can place your order. You are also invited to explore nearby restaurants and stores. Feel free to bring your meals back to Charlotte and enjoy them in the beer garden with us. Maxwell and Moriah love to support mom and pop establishments and hope you'll join in the tradition!
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Why no wedding party?
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We did not feel the need to specify which friends would have honors or be expected to help on the big day. We firmly believe that anyone who wants to help will, and those who don't want to are absolutely free to make that choice, with no judgment whatsoever!
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How can I help?
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We will have a carpool sign up and a to do list at the Hotel Charlotte. Come see us there on Friday the 13th and sign up for a task you wouldn’t mind helping out with. We appreciate anyone who wants to help.
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Can my little beings join?
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Children are most welcome to join us! Additionally, the Hotel Charlotte is a dog-friendly place. However, it's important to note that the National Park Service does not permit dogs at Tenaya Lake, so they cannot be present at the ceremony. The bride and groom would be truly honored if you choose to bring your family, including your furry friends. Please do let us know in your RSVP, so we can make the necessary arrangements. Thank you!
Lodging
Hotel
Hotel Charlotte
This will be our reception venue! It is 100% booked with our guests for the wedding. Please see below for alternate accommodations.
Discount Code - MoMax2024
Hotel
Groveland Hotel
This hotel is just across the street! It sports more modern decor with a western style.
Hotel
All Seasons Groveland Inn
Walking distance
Hotel
Yosemite International Hostel
Walking distance
Hotel
Yosemite Region Resorts
Walking distance
Hotel
Yosemite Inn at Pine Mountain Lake
1 minute drive
Hotel
Yosemite Pines RV Resort & Family Lodging
5 min drive
Hotel
PML Campground
6 minute drives
Flight
Modesto
This airport is the closest and is an hour and 15 minutes to Groveland, CA.
Flight
Sacramento Airport
This airport is two hours and 19 minutes to Groveland, CA.
Flight
Fresno Airport
This airport is two hours and 34 minutes away to Groveland, CA.
Gift
Gallery
Things To Do
Iron Door Saloon
Within walking distance of The Hotel Charlotte
Cocina Michoacana
Within walking distance of The Hotel Charolette
Mountain Sage
Within walking distance of The Hotel Charolette Local family owned and operated since 2002
Kevin N Randi's Old Fashion Meat Market
Within walking distance of The Hotel Charolette
Two Guys Pizza Pies
Local and family owned since 1994
Priest Station Café
Local and family owned and operated for six generations
Tangled Hearts Bakery
Local family owned and operated since 2014
Around The Horn Brewing Company
Local family owned and operated since 2020
Wedding Party
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