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Alejandra Heman

and

Miguel Contreras

Alejandra Heman

and

Miguel Contreras

June 1, 2024

Tecate, Baja California

First comes a parking ticket, then comes marriage.

2015

It all started one balmy summer night in Silver Lake. What turned into an online coffee date (from the free dating site) at Casbah Café, became a parking ticket on Sunset, then a trip around Echo Park Lake on those paddle swans. We did a bunch of annoyingly LA stuff in between then and now, where we've created a life full of laughter, fun, tacos, dogs, succulents, beer, mezcal, and more tacos. Nothing is more important to us than tacos, but our family and friends come a close second. We're excited to share that love (and tacos) with you as we celebrate our union, and can't wait to see you at the rancho!

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FAQs/ Dudas y Preguntas

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SADLY, WE ARE ONLY ABLE TO ACCOMMODATE THE CHILDREN IN THE WEDDING PARTY AT OUR RECEPTION. WE KINDLY REQUEST THAT THIS BE AN ADULT-ONLY CELEBRATION. Lamentablemente no se permitirán niños chicos, al sólo que sean parte de la recepción.
Question

Are my children allowed to attend? / ¿Se permiten niños?

Answer

We're trying to keep this mostly an adult event. It's outside, so we don't want your child to be picked up by a hawk or coyote in the darkness or something. Queremos mucho a tus niños pero queremos que sea un evento primeramente para adultos. Va a ser al aire libre, y no queremos que se los lleve un halcón.

Question

Is there a dress code? / ¿Hay código de vestuario?

Answer

Cocktail attire; cowboy hats welcome but not required. The wedding will be outdoors in late Baja spring, but bring a light sweater in case there's a breeze. Vestimenta de cóctel/semi-formal; se vale usar tejana. Va a ser en el verano en Baja California, pero traiga un abrigo ligero por si se pone frío.

Question

Do I need a passport? / ¿Necesito pasaporte?

Answer

Yes. If you're trying to keep your return border crossing chill, bring a passport. Si está viajando de otra parte de México, no necesita pasaporte para ir a Baja California.

Question

What are the best places to stay in Tecate? / ¿Qué lugares hay para quedarse en Tecate?

Answer

Refer to Travel section of the site for recommended hotels. Most hotels on the list are 5 minutes down the road from the ranch. Santuario Diegueño is the furthest on the list, but is only about 10 minutes away. There are also plenty of Airbnb rentals available. Refiérase a la sección de Alojamiento de este página. La mayoría de los hoteles están a 5 minutos del rancho. Santuario Diegueño es el que está más lejos a 10 minutos. También hay Airbnbs disponibles.

Question

How do I get to the venue? / ¿Cómo llego al evento?

Answer

Please go to the Schedule section of this page and click the map or link for the exact location of Quinta El Manzanito. You should be able to get directions on your phone from that. If for some reason that's not working, follow these instructions: 1. If coming from the Tecate border crossing, head straight until you hit the park three blocks down. 2. Turn right onto Avenida Benito Juárez and go straight for about 4.5 kilometers, minding the slight curve left at the Cruz Roja/Red Cross hospital. 3. Make a right at Cuchumá, the stoplight at Tacos Dumas. If you go past the Oxxo/Pemex gas station, you've gone too far. 4. Go up Cuchumá past where the paved road ends. Once on the dirt road, go about 1/2 a kilometer and make a left onto Lomitas del Cuchumá, where there will be a sign on the telephone pole that reads "AYM." 5. Keep driving until the road ends. That's the ranch. Vea la sección "Horario" y haga click en el mapa para usar en su navegación. Si no sirve su teléfono y cruza por Tijuana: 1. Ya que cruce la frontera, siga los letreros que digan "Tecate Cuota." 2. Ya en Tecate, verá varios hoteles altos (Kumiai, La Estancia). 3. Como a medio kilómetro, de vuelta a la izquierda en el semáforo en la Calle Cuchumá, en la esquina del Oxxo/Pemex y Tacos Dumas. 4. Siga hasta que se acabe el pavimento por otro medio kilómetro y de vuelta a la izquierda en Lomitas Cuchuma donde habra un letrero que dirá "AYM." 5. Siga hasta que tope la calle, y ahí está el rancho.

Question

Do I need to cross my car into Mexico?

Answer

No. Tecate is a relatively small town, so you can park your car at the many parking lots before you cross into Mexico and just walk across. There should be taxis waiting as soon as you cross into Mexico, and Uber should also be working to take you to your hotel or the wedding. Most lots charge $5 a day. If they're full, try the lot at the map link below and pay at the automated pay station. If you don't see any taxis, you can walk straight down two blocks until you hit Miguel Hidalgo Park. You should find plenty of taxis there. https://maps.app.goo.gl/EN16wcVX8G3jpYRh7

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What time do they close the border?

Answer

The Tecate-US border is open from 6am to 10pm. The borders at Otay and Tijuana are open 24 hours.

Question

How long is the border wait time?

Answer

The wait time to cross back into the US from Tecate on a Sunday afternoon is roughly about 3-5 hours. You can avoid the line by waking up super early, like 6am-7am, parking across the border at an aforementioned lot, and then walking back to enjoy the day in Mexico. Walking back across usually takes less than 5 minutes. The wait times in Otay and Tijuana can be roughly the same, though Otay always seems to go a little quicker. Use that SENTRI or Ready Lane if you have it. There is no SENTRI or Ready Lane in Tecate.

Question

Do I need Mexican car insurance?

Answer

Check with your provider to confirm, but US insurance usually covers you up to 25 miles into Mexico, so you should be good if you're staying in and around Tecate. Any deeper into Baja, and we suggest buying insurance. It's not that expensive for the per-day rate, and you can just Google "Mexico car insurance" to find coverage.

Lodging/Alojamiento

Hotel

Santuario Diegueño

798 Río Yaqui, Tecate, B.C. 21420, Mexico
 (665) 654 4777

Hotel

Kumiai Inn

1451 Benito Juárez, Tecate, B.C. 21440, Mexico
 665 655 9184

Hotel

Estancia Inn

1450 Benito Juárez, Tecate, B.C. 21440, Mexico
 665 521 3066

Hotel

Short Stay Tecate

1245 Tercera, Tecate, B.C. 21440, Mexico
 (665) 851-5076

Hotel

Hotel El Dorado

160 Avenida Benito Juárez, Tecate, B.C. 21410, Mexico
 (665) 654 1333

Hotel

Rancho La Puerta

Tecate, B.C. 21520
 8004437565

*Muy expensivo

Hotel

Villa Azura

1562 Lomitas del Cuchuma, Tecate, B.C. 21447, Mexico
 +52 55 7100 2042

Things To Do/ Cosas que hacer

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Eat the best tacos on the planet, take a day to explore Mexican wine country, buy some bread.
Tacos El Güero

Tacos El Güero

451 Avenida Benito Juárez, Tecate, B.C. 21448, Mexico

The first thing you should do when you cross the border, is try the best tacos on the planet at El Güero. Go-to order (if you're really hungry): 1 quesadilla de harina de asada 1 taco de tripa 2 tacos de adobada (and if you're super, super hungry, 1 taco de suadero) Una Coca Lo primero que hay que hacer cuando llegue a Tecate es probar los mejores tacos del mundo en El Güero: Su orden (si tiene mucha hambre): 1 quesadilla de harina de asada 1 taco de tripa 2 tacos de adobada (y si tiene hambre de a de veras, 1 taco de suadero) Una Coca

Mariscos Chemel

Mariscos Chemel

121 Callejon Reforma, Tecate, B.C. 21400, Mexico

The best fish taco outside of Ensenada. Not responsible for anything else on the menu. El mejor taco de pescado fuera de Ensenada. No respondo por lo otro en el menú.

Taquería Los Amigos

Taquería Los Amigos

s/n Avenida Miguel Hidalgo, Tecate, B.C. 21400, Mexico

Walk in the steps of a tiny Miguel Contreras, who braved the busy counter as a wee lad at this Tecate OG taquería, wondering if the taquero was going to chop off his fingers because he was too busy looking up and taking orders. Get the asada burrito. If the line is too long, go up the street to the second location. Camine el los pasos de el niño Miguel, que con vergüenza se atrevía a ordenar en la taquería clásica, nervioso de que el taquero se cortaría un dedo por estar tomando órdenes en vez de poner atención. Ordene el burrito de asada. Si está muy ocupado, vaya a el segundo local a medio kilómetro.

Miguel Hidalgo Park

Miguel Hidalgo Park

Calle Ortiz Rubio y Callejon Libertad, Centro, Tecate, B.C. 21400, Mexico

Parque Miguel Hidalgo is Tecate's main historic square in the heart of its downtown, just two blocks from the border. Walk around the shops of the only "Pueblo Mágico" along the border for local food and crafts. Go to the legendary Bar Diana and feel like you're in the first episode of Mayans M.C., one of our favorite shows despite its terrible acting and writing. El Parque Miguel Hidalgo es el centro principal de Tecate, a sólo dos cuadras de la garita. Disfrute de las tiendas, comida y puestos del único "Pueblo Mágico" que se halla en la frontera. Vaya al histórico Bar Diana para sentirse como que está en el primer episodio de "Mayans M.C.", uno de nuestros programas favoritos a pesar de la pésima actuación y escritura.

Jardín Cerveza Tecate

Jardín Cerveza Tecate

70 Avenida Miguel Hidalgo, Tecate, B.C. 21400, Mexico

Have some Tecate straight from the source. Craft beer it ain't. Tome Tecate directo de la fuente. ¿Cuál cerveza artesanal?

Birria De Res "El Pelon"

Birria De Res "El Pelon"

383-391 Avenida Revolución, Tecate, B.C. 21410, Mexico

Words don't do this birria justice. Proof that "Tecate-style birria" needs to be a thing. Forget the quesataco nonsense and get two tacos with consomé. You'll take over the world after that.

La Tarasca

La Tarasca

Av. Juarez #176 Zona Centro, Tecate, B.C. 21400, Mexico

Check out one of the best gift shops in Tecate and Alejandra's favorite "chingaderitas" store in the world. This is where Miguel first bought Alejandra a gift, a weird little felt figurine of a dead guy which still hangs from her rear view mirror. Visiten una de las tiendas favoritas de Alejandra donde a cada rato compra sus "chingaderitas." Aquí le compro Miguel su primer regalo a Alejandra, un monito raro que todavía tiene en su espejo retrovisor.

Kilolibra Cafe

Kilolibra Cafe

265 Avenida Benito Juárez, Tecate, B.C. 21400, Mexico

If you have a predilection for hipster coffee like we do, grab a latte or cold brew at KiloLibra to enjoy with your bread from El Mejor Pan de Tecate a block over. The coffee is great, and they have some cool shirts for sale. Si le gusta café hipster como a nosotros, pase por un latte o café en frio a KiloLibra para disfrutar con una concha de El Mejor Pan a una cuadra. El café es excelente y venden camisas bien chidas.

El Mejor Pan de Tecate

El Mejor Pan de Tecate

331 Avenida Benito Juárez, Tecate, B.C. 21400, Mexico

This place lives up to its name. Before you cross back to the U.S., ruin your keto and buy a bunch of conchas. Wait for the warm birotes con jalapeños to come out of the oven. You won't regret it. Este lugar merece su nombre. Compre un montón de conchas, y no se pierda el birote de queso con jalapeños. No se va a arrepentir.

Barbacoa La Pasadita

Barbacoa La Pasadita

Tecate, B.C. 21505, Mexico

If you can bear the hangover early Sunday morning, head over to La Pasadita for some ridiculously delicious lamb barbacoa. Tell them Miguel from "La Misión" sent you. Si puede aguantar la cruda el domingo por la mañana, vaya a La Pasadita por una deliciosa barbacoa de borrego. Dígales que Miguel de "la misión" los mandó.

Horno De La Montaña

Horno De La Montaña

#1 Naranjos, Alfonso Garzon, Tecate, B.C. 21496, Mexico
, 6651272376

Agárrense los calzones! Drive up the hill and experience some Mexican-Italian food and an amazing view of the city, but make sure to follow the directions on their website. You need to make reservations. Disfrute de comida México-Italiana y una vista de la ciudad, pero asegúrese de usar las instrucciones en su página para encontrar el lugar. Se requieren reservaciones.

Bichi Winery

Bichi Winery

Tecate, B.C. 21507, Mexico

"Bichi" is Mexican slang for "naked," hence Bichi Wines. Get it?... because naked wines??? Contact the winery ahead of time to see if reservations are available. "Bichi" Wines son vinos naturales de Tecate. Contacte el viñedo para ver si puede reservar.

Lomita Winery

Camino vecinal Parcela 71 Fracc. 3 Lote 13, Francisco Zarco, B.C. 22750, Mexico

If you're making a long weekend out of your trip to across the border, head to El Valle de Guadalupe, Mexico's wine country, for amazing food, wine, beer and scenery. If you can get a reservation, check out our favorite winery there, Lomita. It has a beautiful view of the valley and really good wine.

Animalón

Animalón

Km 83 Carretera Federal 3 Ejido El Porvenir Valle de Guadalupe, Ensenada, B.C. 22750, Mexico
, 6643752658

If you do the Valle thing, try to make a reservation a few weeks ahead of time for Animalón, literally Alejandra's favorite place in the universe. You can brag to your foodie friends you went to Javier Plascencia's best restaurant. If you manage to get a spot, ask to be seated under the ancient oak tree. It's beautiful and romantic, and the food is amazing. Go big and order as many courses as you can fit, though 5 is probably more than enough. Then have a shot of the rattlesnake-infused sotol. It's absolutely disgusting, truly. Do it for Miguel. Si van al Valle de Guadalupe, hagan reservación en Animalón, uno de los lugares favoritos del universo de Alejandra. Presúmale a sus amigos gourmands que comió en el mejor restaurante de Javier Plascencia. Pida que lo sienten de bajo del encino antiguo. Está bonito y romántico el lugar. Ordene los más tiempos que le quepan, pero 5 son más que suficientes. Después tómese un trago de sotol de víbora de cascabel. Sabe horrible. Hágalo por Miguel.

Finca Altozano

Finca Altozano

Km 83 Ejido, Francisco Zarco, B.C. 22750, Mexico

If you can't swing Animalón, then Finca Altozano on the same ranch is a very apt consolation. It's another Javier Plascencia joint, so you know the food is amazing. We don't usually eat octopus because we believe they are the descendants of aliens from outer space who will one day return to exact revenge on everyone who partook in a nice cóctel de camarón y pulpo, but the grilled octopus is the rare exception, it's that good! Feed a dog, too. Si no logra entrar a Animalón, Finca Altozano está en el mismo rancho. Es otro lugar de Javier Plascencia y la comida es excelente. No comemos pulpo porque creemos que son descendientes de extraterrestres que volverán un día por su venganza contra todos que disfrutaron de un cóctel de camarón con pulpo, pero el pulpo asado que hacen aquí es una rara excepción. También dele de comer a un perro enfadoso de la finca.

Plaza Del Zapato

Plaza Del Zapato

9450 Erasmo Castellanos Q., Tijuana, B.C. 22320, Mexico

If you're coming in or leaving through Tijuana and have an hour to spare and are looking to run into some punks, stop at the dive bars next door to La Plaza del Zapato for some beer, pulque, mezcal and burgers. We spent many a night drinking and dancing at the several antros who it seems are required by law to play reggaeton, and reggaeton only. Please drink responsibly. Si pasan por Tijuana y quieren toparse con unos punks, vayan a los numerosos bares enseguida de la Plaza del Zapato para tomar cerveza artesanal, mezcal y pulque. Pasamos muchas noches bailando en los varios antros que al parecer por ley tienen que tocar exclusivamente puro reggaetón. Consuma responsablemente.

Cervecería Insurgente

Cervecería Insurgente

10021 Juan Cordero, Tijuana, B.C. 22010, Mexico

If you do the TJ thing and the governor's brother hasn't shut down the brewery because he thinks it's getting a little too loud on the patio (true story), stop by Insurgente for some of the best craft beer in Baja. Si el hermano del gobernador no los ha clausurado por tener la música muy alta (historia verdadera), pase por Insurgente para probar una la cerveza artesanal mejor de Baja California.

Tacos El Franc

Tacos El Franc

9257 Boulevard General Rodolfo Sánchez Taboada, Tijuana, B.C. 22010, Mexico

Try the world-famous Tacos El Franc, because why not? Pruebe los famosos Tacos El Franc.

Birria "Si"

Birria "Si"

329 Belisario Domínguez, Tijuana, B.C. 22400, Mexico

If you're tired of that over-condimented, overpriced, oily stuff that passes for Tijuana-style birria in LA, you can try actual Tijuana birria. It's now our first stop when we cross into TJ. Just make sure to pay close attention to your navigation or you'll be stuck in a one-way loop for 20 minutes. Si está cansado de birria "estilo Tijuana" grasosa y sobre-condimentada, pruebe esta birria verdaderamente Tijuana. Es nuestrs primer parada cuando cruzamos por Tijuana. Póngale atención a su GPS o si no estará dando vueltas por 20 minutos.

Registry/ Registró de Regalos

Schedule / Horario

Ceremony/Ceremonia:5:00 pm Cocktail Hour/Cóctel:5:30 pm

Saturday, June 1, 2024

Wedding Ceremony, with Reception to Follow

Sat, Jun 1, 2024, 4:30 pm - Sun, Jun 2, 2024, 2:00 am

Quinta El Manzanito
Lomitas del Cuchuma, 32.56016765954133, -116.66808427725104, Tecate, B.C. 21446, Mexico

Cocktail Attire; cowboy hats welcome but not required / Vestuario de cóctel; se vale ponerse tejana

We love your children but this is an adults-only event. Queremos mucho a sus niños, pero este evento es adultos.

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