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Michael Caylor

and

Victoria Boechler

Michael Caylor

and

Victoria Boechler

April 11, 2026

Eugene, OR

Our Story So Far

Victoria and I met on a church retreat where she beat me in a game of Catan. The next time we spoke wasn't until that summer in Drake park. She was studying for grad school and I was playing volleyball. This next time I saw her I knew I had to say hi and get to know her so I formally introduced myself and we talked about what she was studying. She showed me pictures of the brain and I pretended to know something about it to try and impress her. She acted impressed even though only half of what I was saying was right. From then on she would always oblige me when I wanted to have a conversation about what she was studying or what new things were happening in her life. We continued to get to know each other through Westside church where we volunteered together for 2 years with the Middle School Youth. Towards the end of our season of volunteering, she told me she got a job in Salem after school and would be moving. Of course, I couldn't let her go without at least seeing if she liked me (Her learning chess to spend time with me and always approaching me for advice and conversation weren't obvious enough for me) so I asked her to coffee. Our few coffee dates went well so we decided to begin dating as she was moving away. It was difficult knowing we would have to date at a distance but we knew each other well enough it was worth it to see if we could go the distance together. Fast forward through 2 years of laughing, crying, vulnerability, safety, and love and we decided both of our lives would be less meaningful without the other. I asked her to marry me on a hiking trail that connected many of our most cherished memories and the rest, they say, is history. Victoria and I would love if all of you could make it to our wedding on April 11th, 2026 to continue writing our history with us. With love, Michael and Victoria.

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Schedule

Saturday, April 11, 2026

Wedding

3:30 pm

Registry

Wedding Party

Amanda Hertzberg

Matron of Honor

Aimee Boechler

Maid of Honor

Jacqueline Boechler

Maid of Honor

Ashley Sims

Bridesmaid

Olivia Franssen

Bridesmaid

Alex Mendez

Bridesmaid

Katie Sawtelle

Bridesmaid

Chad Brantley

Best Man

Matthew Caylor

Groomsman

Chad Licup

Groomsman

Maxx Mainzer

Groomsman

Colton Zimmerman

Groomsman

Arhip Bobkov

Groomsman

FAQs

Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

Semi-formal

Question

Are my children allowed to come?

Answer

Anyone who was listed on the invite is welcome to join us.

Question

What is the start time of the ceremony?

Answer

3:30 PM

Question

Can I bring a plus-one?

Answer

If your invite included a plus-one invitation then please feel free to bring one.

Question

My invite did not have a plus-one included but I need to bring someone.

Answer

Unfortunately, the capacity at the venue is limited and they would not have a spot at the dinner table.

Question

Will there be an open bar?

Answer

We will not have alcoholic drinks at the wedding but we will be serving a variety of non-alcoholic beverages in a self-serve format.

Question

Can you accommodate dietary restrictions or allergies?

Answer

There will be gluten-free options available. If you have an allergy please reach out to us.

Question

Are gifts expected?

Answer

No, but spending quality time with us is!

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Are phones or photos allowed?

Answer

Not during the ceremony. You are more than welcome to take photos any other time.

Question

Where do you recommend we stay?

Answer

We recommend the Inn at the 5th, Valley River Inn, Gordon Hotel, or the Hyatt at Oakway Center.

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