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Mel Cook

and

Pat White

Mel Cook

and

Pat White

June 21 - 25, 2023

Chicago, IL

How we met

Love is Punk - Favie Gravy

We fell in love before our first date at Sportsman's Bar. Love at “first text”—a Millenial love story ignited by Hinge. Our first date was February first. Within three days we moved in together and got engaged. We could try to rationalize and explain, but why? When you know, you know. That’s why, Wir Zwei. It took us more than 3 decades to find each other, slowly orbiting with lots of closely missed connections. A Venn diagram of rings of friends, favorite places, DJ’s, stinky foods, dive bars, and a penchant for aesthetics. We will join forces on the Summer Solstice—the longest and brightest day of the year. 🌞 🦔 💕💍🦔 🌈💫💃🏻🕺🏻

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Schedule

Wednesday, June 21, 2023

Summer Solstice Wedding Ceremony

5:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Humboldt Park Waterfall
1400 N Humboldt Park Dr., "Butterfly Garden", Chicago, IL 60622

This is an outdoor event, dress with flair and be prepared for the weather. We are on the grass, so be aware that it might be hard to walk in high heels. If you’re from Chicago, bring a blanket to sit on ;)

You should be able to park on Luis Monuz Marin Dr, right next to the location where our little ceremony will take place.

Wedding Ceremony After Party

7:30 pm - 11:45 pm

We will be on the patio so bring a jacket or sweater if needed!

Join us for drinks and small bites on the patio of the bar where we met and fell in love! Tamales will be served from the one and only TAMALE GUY—a Chicago legend!! *Cash or credit accepted at the bar. Must be 21+. For those of you with a car: You can park for free next door on the parking lot of 5/3 Fifth Third Bank. They are OK with people parking there after 5pm. Check them out on IG: @tamale.guy @drinkandgather

Saturday, June 24, 2023

Wedding Dance Party

Sat, Jun 24, 2023, 7:30 pm - Sun, Jun 25, 2023, 1:00 am

Dress with flair! Come prepared to dance the night away! (semi-casual)

Join us for dancing, drinks, and Pizza. Music by BUEN VIAJE and BLESSTONIO.

Travel

The wedding will be in Humboldt Park, the after party in Ukrainian Village and the dance party in Wicker Park. We're happy to recommend Hotels and/or Bed and Breakfast spots.

Hotel

The Robey

2018 West North Avenue, Chicago, IL 60647
 

The Robey is a beautiful landmark, located up the street from Heaven Gallery, has a beautiful bar and view of the city, as well as a rooftop pool. It’s more on the pricier side, though.

Hotel

Ray's Bucktown Bed and Breakfast

2144 North Leavitt Street, Chicago, IL 60647
 773) 384-3245

Cute B’n’B in Bucktown, located in the heart of the neighborhood.

Hotel

Hyatt Place Chicago / Wicker Park

1551 West North Avenue, Chicago, IL 60622
 

House Or Rental

Airbnb

Hotels are really expensive this time of the year - we highly recommend looking for airbnbs.

Registry

Our Wedding Dance Party

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The celebration of our love continues on Saturday, June 24, from 7:30PM until 1:00AM at Heaven Gallery, 1550 N Milwaukee Ave #2, Chicago, IL 60622. Chicago's finest DJs BUEN VIAJE and BLESSTONIO will be playing - so bring your dancing shoes!

BUEN VIAJE

DJs

@buenviaje_djs

BLESSTONIO

DJ

@blesstonio

The first date that never ended…

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Things To Do

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FAQs

Question

Where should we stay?

Answer

Hotels are crazy expensive - we suggest booking an airbnb. Our address is 2111 N Mozart - so you have a reference for location.

Question

What’s the dress code?

Answer

We love that you are coming to our wedding. We don’t want anyone to feel like they have to dress a certain way. If you wanna dress up: perfect. If you wanna be more comfy: also perfect. Remember: It’s prob going to be hot, we’re outside and for the dance party you might want to wear something to dance in anyways. ❤️

Question

Is there a registry?

Answer

Yes, here on Zola. There’s a few items but mostly it’s a fundraiser to pay off our expenses and maybe have some extra to go on our honeymoon to Thailand ❤️👀

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