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When is the deadline to RSVP?

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Our deadline to RSVP is 08/1/2025. As we will have table service for dinner, we need to finalize an exact headcount and dinner orders by a set deadline with our venue/vendor. If we have not heard back from you by that date, then we will assume you/your party is not attending and will unfortunately not be able to accommodate you at our wedding. Please communicate any concerns you may have with your ability to commit to our date to the Bride and Groom.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your littles -- however, due to our venue constraints, our wedding and reception will be an intimate and adults-only (21 years +) event. No children will be allowed. If there are any questions regarding this, please reach out to us directly.

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Can I bring a date?

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We are keeping our wedding an intimate event with family and close friends only and unfortunately are not able to accommodate extra guests for everyone. If you received a plus one, they will appear on any materials sent to you alongside your name as "& Guest" or by name explicitly. If you have been given a plus one who can no longer attend for any reason and wish to bring someone else in their place, please reach out to the bride and groom to ensure their name is accurately represented in our seating chart.

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Can I take pictures with my phone during the wedding?

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In order for guests to be fully present with us at one of the most special moments in our lives, we have opted for a fully “unplugged” ceremony and ask that you please silence and pocket your phones to avoid disruption. We have a professional photographer and videographer who will be there, and we’d hate for any well-intentioned guests’ phones to block their view. We will share the ceremony photos with everyone when they return, and pictures are more than welcomed during cocktail hour and the reception!

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What should I wear?

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We love to see our family and friends dressed up! So, we are requesting that all of our guests dress in semi-formal/cocktail attire at our event. Ladies can wear dresses of any length or alternative appropriate attire, such as a blouse and khakis. Gentlemen can wear a suit & tie or, alternatively, slacks with a button-down. Please, no jeans or hats. For our non-binary friends, appropriate formal/cocktail attire in which you would feel most comfortable.

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive no later than 15 minutes prior to the ceremony in order to settle in and find your seats without disruption. Any late arrivals that could potentially disrupt or interfere with the ceremony should wait outside of the venue until cocktail hour commences.

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Which side should I sit on?

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Pick a seat, not a side! Seating is extremely limited at our venue, so please sit wherever available. We will have some seats saved for immediate family, so kindly do not sit at a seat that is marked as "Reserved" and do not save seats for guests who are expected to be late.

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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Our wedding will be a mix of indoor and outdoor elements. The indoor reception is in a temperature controlled climate, though we will have some outdoor elements, such as a fire pit, so we recommend dressing appropriately. There is parking right at our venue with minimal walking involved. Though, there is some gravel on-site between the parking lot and the venue, so ladies should plan their footwear accordingly.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, there will be an open bar! We encourage everyone to drink responsibly. No shots will be available. There will also be several non-alcoholic options for those who do not drink alcohol. We recommend carrying cash if you feel inclined to tip our wonderful bartenders for the evening.

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Are any areas "off limits" during the evening?

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Yes. The "Mushroom Shed" is only accessible to the wedding party. It is where the bride will be putting on her wedding dress prior to the ceremony and the couple will spend a few minutes alone after the ceremony prior to pictures. We ask that only the bridal party/specific invited family members enter the Mushroom Shed or walk behind it prior to the ceremony, as private "first looks" may be happening in that secluded area.

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What are your wedding colors?

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Our wedding colors will be slate blue and wine red with copper accents. All of the Bridesmaids will be in slate blue, floor length formal dresses. Groomsmen will be in suits with matching ties. Feel free to wear whatever color you feel most comfortable in, but we ask that you please reserve white for the bride.

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Can I smoke at your event?

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No. The entirety of our venue is a designated non-smoking property. If you must smoke, you will have to travel off-site or use the gravel lot with designated receptacles to avoid a fee. Thank you for understanding!

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Is there a coat check?

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Yes! We will have a coat check at our wedding, so feel free to bring a coat in case the venue or night are chilly. It'll be well held for you! The chairs also have ample backs for hanging any light wraps/shawls.

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Are there accessible bathrooms/parking on-site?

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Yes. There are handicap-accessible designated parking spaces, as well as bathrooms all on floor-level. There are no stairs at our venue.

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What health and safety measures will you be taking during the event?

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We appreciate everyone making health and safety a priority. We are asking that those who are ill at the time of our wedding kindly stay home and contact us ASAP to let us know. We are operating on the honor code, but have some immunocompromised guests in attendance (and part of the wedding party) that we wish to keep safe during our very special day.