We first met at a party in college, and a friend helped us narrowly avoid a missed connection--thanks Alyssa! We lived pretty far away from one another, but Adam never failed to drive down from Maine and brave the roads of I-95 in his mom-van whenever he had the chance. Days turned to months, months turned to years and we finally moved in together and got our furry child, Lucy. Lucy demanded to reside in a city, so we had a brief stint in the City of Brotherly Love: Philadelphia. COVID decided that we were having too much fun, and we moved back to Connecticut. Now, we happily live in Black Rock, where Lucy will look at - but never enter - the water. We are so excited to share our love with all of our friends and family in May!
8:00 pm - 10:30 pm
Casual Attire: Anything goes, from sundresses and sandals to jeans and tees.
Meetup at the Olde Heritage Tavern to grab a drink and settle in for the weekend!
4:00 pm - 10:00 pm
Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses. Grass and gravel tend to be soft, so rethink stilettos.
The ceremony will be outdoors, weather permitting. May can be unpredictable, so be sure to dress for the weather!
10:00 pm - 11:45 pm
The after party will take place on the same property as the ceremony and reception. Shuttles will be provided during and at the conclusion of the after party.
Travel Note
May is a very busy month for weddings and college graduations - please look at booking early to make sure you have a better selection of stays and prices.
Hotel
Please use the link below to book through our hotel block.
Hotel
Discount Code - 0517MB
Hotel
About a 5 minute walk from the heart of Lenox, about a block away from the Whitlock Please call and reference the Brown-Matthews Wedding for group rates! 413-551-2410
Hotel
Right in the heart of Lenox
Hotel
A romantic 19th century English Tudor manor house, surrounded by six acres of gardens and woodland. The inn is located two blocks from Lenox town center.
Shuttle
May 18, 2024 2:30 pm - 4:00 pm
Bus 1 - (Departure times) The Constance: 2:55 The Whitlock: 3:00 The Hampton Inn: 3:10 Arrival at Sassafras: 3:30 Bus 2 - (Departure times) The Constance: 3:10 The Whitlock: 3:15 The Hampton Inn: 3:25 Arrival at Sassafras: 3:45
Shuttle
May 18, 2024 10:00 pm - 12:00 am
Departures: Rolling throughout the night Bus 1 - 10:00 to all hotels Bus 2 - 12:00 to all hotels FINAL Bus
Maid of Honor
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid
Best Man
Groomsman
Groomsman
Groomsman
Groomsman
Groomsman
Officiant
Mother of the Bride
Father of the Bride
Mother of the Groom
Father of the Groom
Dog of Honor
Got treats?
Unfortunately, no. We love your kids, but we want our wedding to be a night for you to relax and enjoy!
We are unable to offer guests a "plus one," unfortunately. We feel that our current guest size is perfect for the wedding we are looking to celebrate with everyone!
Please follow a formal dress code (tuxes + gowns to suits + elegant cocktail dresses). We highly recommend wearing block heels or wedges as you will have to walk across grass and gravel. The month of May can sometimes be unpredictable, so be sure to bring a nice jacket or sweater if needed!
We've got this - we have hired an amazing photographer and videographer team who will capture the evening for everyone. If you really want to capture a moment in front of you, we ask that you wait until after the ceremony to do so.
There is parking directly across from the venue, however we highly encourage our guests to use the provided shuttles. No drinking and thinking involved!
We will have a shuttle that transports guests to and from the wedding venue. Take a look at the "Transportation" section for more information on the shuttle arrival and departure times.
Of course! Please list any food allergies or dietary restrictions when you RSVP for the wedding.
Please enter the first and last name of one member of your party below.
If you're responding for you and a guest (or your family), you'll be able to RSVP for your entire group on the next page.