We technically met the way most great love stories begin: at work… and by completely ignoring each other. We knew of each other for a while, coexisting professionally with polite nods and neutral expressions, which, unfortunately, were not neutral at all. Between the two of us, our resting bitch faces created an invisible force field strong enough to shut down even the most promising of flirtations. To this day, no one knows whose is worse. Science may never know. Fast-forward to a work celebration where professionalism clocked out early and tequila (our shared love language) clocked in. Beneath the sensible work attire beat the hearts of two unapologetic party animals, both fully convinced we could dance… despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary. Somewhere between shots and confidence, a dance-off was declared. What followed can only be described as enthusiasm over skill, rhythm being optional, and dignity politely leaving the room. But something magical happened on that dance floor: laughter, sparks, and the sudden realization that maybe the resting bitch faces had been misunderstood all along. Riding the tequila-fuelled bravery, Mathew did what any gentleman would do, he offered to buy Margo a drink and delivered what may be the most honest (but incredibly cheesy) pick-up line in modern dating history: “I’m single and ready to mingle.” No games. No mystery. No pretending to be cooler than he was. And just like that, the dance-off turned into a drink, the drink turned into a conversation, and the conversation turned into the rest of their lives. Turns out, all it took was tequila, terrible dancing, and two people brave enough to let their resting bitch faces down. And the rest, as they say, is history.
3:30 pm
Cost is R200 per person. This includes padel and food, excludes drink (cash bar available). Payments to be made to Margo, details to be shared upon RSVP.
2:30 pm
Formal
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Bride's Best Man
Arnoldus is the bride’s best man and the owner of the darkest (and best) sense of humour in the room. Always down for anything, he’ll happily join you in a questionable decision, but never let you make it alone. Beneath the sarcasm is a true heart of gold; deeply caring, fiercely loyal, and someone I'm incredibly grateful to have by my side.
Groom's Best Man
My friendship started with Ruby Tuesday's at Crawdaddy's and was cemented over a braai watching Stormers vs Sharks, with plenty of whiskeys and shots, a tradition that’s very much still alive today. From four years of living together to standing by each other through the best and worst days, Ruben has always been a truly loyal friend and the kind of guy who never leaves your corner.
Groom's Co-Best Man
Saint and I go back over 20 years (wow!) from school days, to varsity (where only Saint actually graduated), to five years as flat mates. A naturally competitive sportsman, he brings that same loyalty and commitment to friendship, always showing up, always backing his people, and never doing anything halfway.
Bridesmaid
Dom is our wild card and has been by the my side since day one, so much so that people often confuse us for each other. Instinctively protective and always in your corner, she’ll fight for you when you can’t and cheer you on when you can. A gentle, nurturing soul with a serious party streak, she’ll never say no to a tequila (or two) when the moment calls for it.
Groomsman
Our friendship began as the classic “our partners are best friends, so we should probably get along” situation, which quickly turned into shared sarcasm, endless laughs, and long debates about Lord of the Rings. Since then he’s become the kind of friend who’s always ready to lend a hand without being asked, and someone I am incredibly lucky to have in my life.
Bridesmaid
B is our sweet, dynamite in a small package. Always ready to hit the dance floor with me, even when my moves are slightly embarrassing. She brings energy, laughter, and joy wherever she goes. A constant sounding board and unwavering support through every stage of life, she’s been there through it all and we couldn’t imagine celebrating this day without her.
Groomsman
Mikey (It's a blur) and I go back more than 20 years, back when people used to say we look like brothers, and with me being bald and Mikey almost there, we might just get there again soon. Through the years he’s been the kind of friend who always makes an effort, reaches out, and shows up with steady support when it matters most.
Bridesmaid
Jamie is my sister and my ride-or-die through every phase of life, no judgement, just support (and the occasional side-eye when I need it). She’s been there through all the highs, lows, and “how did I get here?” moments, always ready to help me find my way back. I’m so grateful to have her by my side on this day and I couldn’t do it without her.
Groomsman
Vinny is the kind of mate who’s solid as a rock and always ready to say yes to a late night that probably should have ended earlier. Through plenty of chaos, good laughs, and a few questionable decisions, he’s been a loyal friend to me and someone who always shows up when it really matters.
Bridesmaid
Megan is soon-to-be my sister-in-law and already a sister in every way that counts. A doctor in Ireland, she’s the only person I trust to patch me up after our questionable party choices (and still let me live to tell the tale). From day one, she made me feel completely at home in the family and I’m so grateful to have her by my side.
Our wedding will be at Greenhouse Café just outside of Pretoria.
Please RSVP by 25 March 2025.
Arrival is from 14h30, the ceremony will be starting at 15h00 sharp.
The dress code is Formal. The ceremony will take place outdoors but undercover, followed by an indoor reception. We recommend keeping the setting in mind when choosing your outfit.
As much as we adore your little ones, we’ve decided to make this celebration an adults-only occasion. Consider it a well-deserved night off to relax, dress up, and celebrate with us.
We’d love to celebrate with everyone, but due to venue capacity, attendance is strictly by invitation only. We kindly ask that only the guests named on the invitation attend.
Definitely! There will be a cash bar available. We kindly ask that no outside alcohol be brought onto the venue premises, as the venue has a very strict policy against this.
Your presence is truly the greatest gift to us. We won’t have a traditional gift registry, but for those who would like to give a gift, a cash contribution toward our future together would be sincerely appreciated. Details will be shared on the website.
Help us keep this moment intimate by leaving phones tucked away. Our photographer will capture all the special moments so you can be fully present with us.
We’ll be kicking off the celebrations with a Padel & Prego afternoon/evening on Friday, 5 June 2026. It’s a relaxed, optional get-together and a great way to ease into the wedding weekend. Cost: R200 per person Includes padel and food (drinks excluded) Further details to be confirmed If you’re keen to join, please reach out to Margo or Mathew.
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